tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1 2008-09-05T05:02:43Z Movable Type 3.36 tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.165 2008-09-05T04:44:49Z 2008-09-05T05:02:43Z

Ellida Assuming all of you fitness fanatics are fit as fiddles, are you fussy about finding a partner who is equally as fit? Be it a physical connection or more of a meeting of fitness-wise minds, do you feel that someone needs to be at the same level of fitness as you to be able to see eye-to-eye? Do you think it is difficult for opposites, in this sense, to attract?]]> Are you the active, health-conscious type who simply cannot tolerate a couch potato? Is there no hope for such a pairing to occur? Have you ever dated someone who was the complete fitness opposite to you, or have you always dated your gym-junkie equivalent? tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.164 2008-09-05T04:10:36Z 2008-09-05T05:07:02Z

Ellida Along with the overload of reality television, comes the overload of reality musicians. Whilst most contenders on shows such as Australian Idol, Australia's Got Talent and The X-Factor etc. appear to be mindlessly fame-fetching or seriously deluded, some of the emerging talent can be quite impressive.]]> How credible do you find artists who surface from such shows? Are you quick to dismiss them because they 'won their career? Do you think that they are well respected in the music industry, or will they always have the reality TV stigma attached to their musical offerings? Do you think that the innocent (tone-deaf) souls who audition are being exploited for the sake of entertainment, or do you feel it is time someone told them the truth? tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.163 2008-09-03T06:45:40Z 2008-09-03T06:58:46Z

Ellida Many of us have been in relationships that end up really getting you down and stealing your zeal. Many of us choose to find the other person guilty when it all falls apart. Here is an opportunity for what could be a cathartic and educational discussion to recognize your own blunders in relationships. Why do you feel your partner disconnected with you? Why did you disconnect with them?]]> Ever had a hard time remembering why you chose to be with that person in the first place? Have you ever really identified where and when the cracks in the union started to form? Are you quick to pass the blame-buck and take zero responsibility for a failed relationship? Or do you eat a little humble pie and admit where you went wrong? tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.162 2008-09-03T06:14:11Z 2008-09-03T06:26:18Z

Ellida There has long been a fascination with serendipity - destiny or fate bringing you to the love of your life without your power or choice intervening. Whilst luck in love has been pondered by many artists, musicians, film directors etc. there are certainly people who would strongly challenge this thought, not due to pessimism, but because they have been there, done that!]]> So, to those who have been married; had a long term partner; or have at least once in their lives said "I found the one!" - did luck bring you to "the one"? Was it really dealt by the hand of fate? And, if this is your first step into the dating world after having been in a long-term relationship, has your perspective changed? Are you still a believer (if you ever were)? Or has the experience of once finding that perfect someone, actually made a believer out of you? tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.161 2008-09-02T07:34:16Z 2008-09-02T07:43:20Z

Ellida Many people love the great outdoors, but this doesn't necessarily mean that they are particularly 'sporty' by any means. Are you an outdoor lover for the sheer pleasure of feeling the warmth of the sun? Or do you love to get out there and get competitive in grueling game of footy?]]> Do you enjoy the simple pleasure of walking through a picturesque park and having a picnic under the stars, or is your idea of outdoor fun getting your feet wet or your face dirty? Tell us about your ideal outdoor adventures and what the perfect outdoor date really looks like (as opposed to the old walk-along-the-beach scenario). tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.160 2008-09-01T01:18:50Z 2008-09-01T01:41:32Z

Ellida Every parent differs in their styles of guidance and protection towards their children. This becomes a convoluted process when that parent is single and also on the dating scene. Obviously the age of your child plays a huge part in your decision, but at which stage do you let your kids in on the fact that you are seeing someone new? How quick are you to explain the scenario to your child? ]]> Are your kids aware that you are dating? When do you feel it is appropriate to introduce the new person in your life to the little ones? Do you have stories to tell around times when your kids have taken to your new partner quite well? Or, do you have horror stories about your kids giving your poor date a preview of hell? Do you edit the info you submit to your children about who you are seeing and where you are off to in that flash new outfit? How much parental guidance is required in the world of dating for single parents? tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.159 2008-08-28T07:11:58Z 2008-08-28T07:18:57Z

Ellida According to recent research, the place to hunt down hot, athletic single guys - that not only like a good party, but also earn a good living - is in a lift queue in a ski field! Evidently, this stands for those in favour of finding a man, as reports have shown an average of 6 men to every 4 women on snowfields worldwide! Before all those in search of a man begin to pack their bags and head for those slopes, I'm calling all ski lovers to shed some light on this mountain of hope!Is it true? ]]> If one of your great hobbies is skiing, can you vouch for these numbers? Do you think skiing holds great possibility for meeting potentials? Are you a skier with 'pleasant' experiences behind those ski goggles? Have you been on a ski-trip worth a mention on this topic? Let it snow! tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.158 2008-08-27T07:22:18Z 2008-09-03T07:06:56Z

Jamie Recent reports have suggested that Australia is in the clutches of a 'man drought.' It has been shown that particularly for women over 30, finding an eligible male is proving a difficult task as females are deserting rural areas for city life. While women outnumber men below the age of 34, 'the tipping point' begins to occur in large cities causing a gender imbalance. Is the shortage really as dire as the studies suggest? ]]> For the ladies, is it discernable in your area? Are you more willing to seek out a man from a longer distance? For the gents, are you spoilt for choice in the big smoke? Do older men seek out younger women in this age bracket? Does a smaller world brought about by technology and transport, rapid career progress and tertiary education contribute to the growing amount of movement amongst women not seen before? tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.157 2008-08-20T01:44:13Z 2008-08-28T03:57:30Z

Karina Living life is a risk. Taking chances on a relationship is a risk. Opening our heart is a risk. Skydiving and bungee jumping are both risks. So how do you decide what risks to take if any at all? Is risk part of doing things like having your heart broken is a risk you need to consider when entering a relationship? Is risk created to make our lives more exciting? ]]> tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.156 2008-08-20T01:42:15Z 2008-09-03T07:06:08Z

Karina Nowadays we do every thing online. We shop, we join communities and share information with friends, we do research, we use it for work and we now date as well. We have the ability to join sites where you can meet people and start dating. What about breaking up? Is it fair to do it online when you started dating online? ]]> Is it fair to send a break up email or change your status on your community profile from committed to single and wait until your boyfriend or girlfriend to find out? What are the best and worse ways you can use to break up with someone? Have you ever broken up with someone over the internet? tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.155 2008-08-15T04:54:34Z 2008-08-15T05:20:40Z

Ellida Can someone's choice of dog tell you quite a bit about their personality? Let's say a person prefers the overly active Border Collie or Dalmatian. Does this tell you that they are outdoorsy and energetic? What if they prefer the high-maintenance Pomeranian or Shih Tzu varieties that require professional grooming? Does this tell you that they themselves need extra pampering?]]> How about people who choose the friendlier Basset or Beagle, ideal and safe to have around children? Are these people sociable, outgoing types and are they more likely to have or want children of their own? Do you choose a dog to match your lifestyle or do you opt for aesthetics? Which pooch is your pick and why? tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.154 2008-08-12T05:34:25Z 2008-08-12T05:43:45Z

Ellida Is there a gem in Australia that could be recognised as the ultimate romantic holiday destination? Sure, Paris The City of Light is also universally recognised as The City of Love, but, if there was a place within Australia that could wear that label, where would it be? What is our definitive, dreamy, domestic destination? What would be the perfect backdrop to spark and stir a new romance? Forget The Big Apple and let's brainstorm our home-grown charms. ]]> Notoriously, Sydney seems to top the cliche worldwide romantic holiday lists. Surely there are other magnificent, romance-inducing locations within OZ? Have you been somewhere or heard of a place in Australia that you would vote one of the most romantic settings on earth? Whether you have been, have heard, or have seen - share those fairytale locations within this sunburnt country (and possibly put them on the global map!). tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.153 2008-08-12T03:29:59Z 2008-08-20T03:57:29Z

Karina Attracting and maintaining a loving relationship is a major priority for many singles and couples. But why do some people have long-term intimate relationships that last for years, while others struggle with intimacy of any kind? Have you ever been on a long term relationship that you struggled with intimacy? Is intimacy something that you lose over time? ]]> tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.152 2008-08-07T01:58:33Z 2008-08-20T03:30:55Z

Ellida When you first meet someone, do you rely heavily on an instant connection, refusing to explore a possible relationship any further than the first coffee? Or do you give people the benefit of the doubt, even when you don't feel instantly 'connected'? Are you quick to decide someone just isn't right for you - or are you happy to go along for the ride to see what time tells you? Can you measure your compatibility with someone by the number of dates you have with them?]]> Have you started dating someone you weren't all too keen on, only to see the relationship blossom beautifully, or perhaps you know of someone this has happened to? Or, have you seen a relationship sustained as a sheer refuge from single-dom - even though it was/is totally dysfunctional? How long does it take you to decide whether someone is right/wrong for you? Do you have a tried and true method? Do you feel you have been accurate with every partner selection/dismissal you have made, or have you made some serious blunders? Haven't we all... tag:blogs.rsvp.com.au,2008://1.151 2008-08-04T06:37:06Z 2008-08-12T04:25:37Z

Ellida Once you've agreed to go out on that exciting (nerve-racking) first date with someone you met online, millions of thoughts begin to tick. Are you likely to over-think a situation, allowing yourself to become over-excited or worse, doubtful? Have you ever backed out of a first date because of a little or large bout of nerves? Or do you become so anxious and keen to meet that person, that you become a little impatient?]]> When it comes to setting up the time, place, etc. are you the one to decide? Do you prefer to have all the plans made by the other person, to take the pressure off yourself? Typically the objective of a first date is to see if there will be a second and a third, and hopefully a budding romance - so it's no wonder people throw themselves into a silly spell. How do you handle the first meeting with someone you met online? What are the things you consider?