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Hi,
I am a new member here, and just want to say hi to all dancers herre. That term sounds really fancy doesn't it, but you know if we dance then we can be called dancers. I would call myself someone who can dance without having to worry about how people view my technique, and this is not because I am fantastic,(because Im not) just that I enjoy what I do. I also have gotten to the age when I really don't care what other people think.. because that is their problem not mine. During a cruise last year, I got up and was dancing in the corridor near a music venue, simply because of the joy and pleasure that the music brought me. Some grumpy old man walked passed saw me, and started scowling and shaking his head. I thought.. you know.. crack a smile it won't kill you... stress and grumpiness may however..
Just enjoy the freedom of being yourself.
bye

Posted by: riseaboveit at February 14, 2010 11:35 PM

Don't dance like nobody is watching. Dance like you and your partner are watching each other but there is no-one else in the room. To feel the music in yourself and in your dance partner at the same time is an amazing sensation - the music actually joins you both together rhythmically and sensually. It takes you to a whole new level on the dance floor.

Posted by: dancesintime at January 21, 2010 4:32 PM

My comment on the original post is: Professionals dance like someone is watching - all the time. Their reputation is on the line every time they are on the floor. Everyone else should dance for themselves and their partner alone. Dance, done correctly, can be a meditation. It is an immersion in and interpretation of the music, and becomes wonderful when you and your dance partner move together. How others see what you do is irrelevant. Have you enjoyed the music? Has your partner felt embraced and cared for? These are the important questions.

Posted by: caminada at January 20, 2010 10:59 PM

Livenlife50

There quite a few places on the Gold Coast, depending on what you would like to learn here a several for you.
Gold Coast Rockers meet on Wednesday evenings at Broadbeach Bowls Club, advanced lessons 6.30pm, beginners 7.15pm starting on the 20th January
New York Ballroom at Mermaid Beach have a variety of dances, salsa, foxtrot, waltz, jive, cha cha cha, on Tuesday evenings starting at 7.15pm on the 5th January.
Latino at the Croatian Club at Carrara on Monday evenings at 6.30pm.
Pop along and have fun learning.

Posted by: ladyinparadise2 at January 4, 2010 8:18 AM

New to the Gold Coast and would love to know where for beginners, a person can go. I don't consider myself to be a clutz with Clown Feet, but for a long time now have been interested in finding a place to start. Hope someone out there can help.

Posted by: livenlife50 at December 4, 2009 12:54 PM

FEEL MOVE EXPLORE MUSIC !

Posted by: onlymyking at October 3, 2009 1:36 AM

Well I think the dance floor can be crowded and everyone would be so happy just to do their thing and that is the purpose of dancing. Just have fun. Swing your body to your content. It is good form of exercise but coupled with the music our body relaxes and our soul and spirit join in. What a way to have fun. I cant play sports. Ages ago I had to ask my PE teacher to allow me to gather my dance troupe members whom I joined to dance with me on stage Jazz, modern, cultural dances during university special events. There is a saying If there is a will to pass the Physical Education this is my only way I could think of, to Dance my way in to finish my University... Fantastic! I was called the Disco Queen by the priest during our graduation. How cool is that?

Posted by: susieqtpie at September 21, 2009 6:10 PM

Well I think the dance floor can be crowded and everyone would be so happy just to do their thing and that is the purpose of dancing. Just have fun. Swing your body to your content. It is good form of exercise but coupled with the music pur body relaxes and out soul and spirit join in. What a way to have fun. I cant play sports so I had to ask my PE teacher to allow me to gather my dance troupe members to perform on stage Jazz, modern, cultural during our university events. If there is a will to pass my Physical Education this is the only way. Dance my way in to finish my University... Fantastic!

Posted by: susieqtpie at September 21, 2009 6:06 PM

Funny girls, how a few of you are complaining that there are a lack of men who can't dance. My last girlfriend couldn't dance, although it wasn't the reason we split up, but it was annoying!

Posted by: rickpat75 at September 6, 2009 10:19 AM

According to the newspapers here there are more eligible men in Brisbane than any other state of Australia. So How is that Brisbane people, looks like you've got 'em all !! Bet you didn't know that when you have had a look around.

Posted by: iaminperth at August 29, 2009 6:55 PM

Where are all of the eligible dancing gentleman 50+ in Brisbane going these days, it appears to be all the same crowds. More women than men at some venues like Arana Hills Comunity Hall, Eventide Communtiy Centre , Chiense Catholic Church, Northside Jive Centres. Is it possible they all sitting at home looking at photos and hoping the ladies will find them in their computer rooms. Can anyone enlighten me?

Posted by: girlgolden at August 29, 2009 11:32 AM

I'm wondering if anyone can recommend a good place to learn salsa around North Sydney, Crows Nest area...

Posted by: raw330 at August 21, 2009 4:26 PM

I am new to the victorian midlands and love to ceroc, however I can't find anywhere or anyone that does it can anyone help?

ps- I am new this a small country town and have found if I waltz or rock n roll with someone, and look like I am enjoying it people think I am flirting or easy, and take it the wrong way, has anyone else experienced this?

Posted by: qtp1e at August 15, 2009 10:00 PM

I now dance with pride on the floor . I learnt to dance for me and did not go out on the social scene until I had at least 100 dance sequences in my heart. I found the feeling of dancing correctly a unique experience that sensation in the stomach when reaching another level. The enjoyment of also helping other men and women feel this feeling through dancing has helped get over the fact that there are a lot of men dont realise what they are missing out on. It is one of the healthiest sports in mind body and soul. You reap the benifits from being able to dance close to women, and if you were in Brisbane where else can you go and have live entertainment plus company and supper included for $10.I also learnt the higher you achieve in dancing the harder it is to snag a partner. Men appear not to like women who dance too proffesional or in simple terms correctly. I will continue to smile and enjoy dancing for myself.

Posted by: girlgolden at August 14, 2009 9:04 PM

As a professional dancer, I resent the impression that we have no inhibitions when walking into a nightclub! There seems to be an added pressure to be able to whirl partners around the dancefloor or become the nights free entertainment at parties. It seems the point of this blog is not to drag on about the lack of men that attend dance classes but to identify with your own sense of artistic self. Sure it is great to slow dance in the arms of that someone special, but dont forget the sense of freedom and independence that comes with knowing and embracing the pure expression that your own movement can impact on those around you.

Posted by: pavlova33 at July 22, 2009 8:30 PM

There is a great old time dance class every wk in Grafton NSW for singles over 45s. There is often a shortage of men. Where are you all? Come on guys we need more of you to balance the ratio. Good clean wholesome fun. What a way to meet other singles

Posted by: timetolivenow at June 21, 2009 1:34 PM

Hey Bob,

You said that Salsa is a code....is this along the lines of the shawshank theory..?

Virgo...:)

Posted by: virgowoman2 at June 8, 2009 10:48 AM

Agree with everyone re: the dancing. It is great fun and mostly women outnumber the men. If you look around there are places that run short courses on dancing, then you can see if you enjoy it and find out where else you can go to learn or dance more. In Victoria try CAE. Our salsa instructor is a great dancer, she's hilarious and makes each session pass too quickly :-). As there are only 3-4 men each week most of us women take it in turns to be the woman and the man. Still alot of fun! I am fortunate that I will have someone to practise with (though for the moment these are secret lessons so I can learn the basic steps to dance with him)...ladies there is some hope...I met him through rsvp.

Posted by: ali1974 at June 8, 2009 10:39 AM

I agree Jen. I went to a Salsa class and was dismayed that there were only 4 blokes there compared to 16 women. Not because I wanted to meet a bloke, but is so much nicer for a woman to be the "woman" when dancing, hehe.

Perth, if you have a good partner, you dont have to remember much at all. They do all the work and you feel like you're just floating in their arms.

Posted by: willow29 at June 8, 2009 9:53 AM

Now all that is true and -

"Where The Hell is Matt " did make me smile and the music - Praan is great.

However more in tune with this site - maybe! is "Where the Hell is Matt's Girlfriend"

Available on Youtube no doubt!

Posted by: stephen54 at June 7, 2009 11:54 PM

Sounds great Jen but last time i tried dancing it was a dare to bust out every move i had for one song and get shouted drinks for the rest of the night...!!!

No worries i say, running full speed i dive head first across the floor on my stomach, bang..! straight into the stage..!!! Recovered and done a rap move called the "fish flop" all the way back across to the other side, got up then just danced like no one's watching. Before long everyone was into it dancing like no tomorrow..!
And your were right!! there were more women than men dancing by the end of the song...:)

Posted by: feelgood76 at June 7, 2009 7:58 PM

Well Hi everyone new at this.I go to dance classes and there are always an abundance of women compared to men, where are all you men "come on don't be shy" dance like no one is watching.Dancing is a very social thing to do and you meet some great people.The classes I attend, the dance studio also hosts social outings as well.They have trips to the vineyards,rock &roll ten pin bowling nights,Balls & dances as fund raising for various charities.Male & Female only outings,trips to shows,cruisers to name a few .Dancing is about enjoying yourself ,stepping outside of the square. I encourage anyone to go along learn a few steps then go out to dances and practice ,practice,practice,like no one is watching you

Posted by: rosesat50 at June 7, 2009 5:31 PM

Hi Jen,

There are lots of dance schools in Sydney. Dont know how successful they are, but every second woman on RSVP up here seems to be in to some form of dance....but is it a code.....especially salsa...but are they also walking along beaches by moonlight (they'd be freezing their tits off tonight)!!

Problem is that I dont know that too many older guys are into ballroom type dancing...most older guys I know wont dance at all, but a great idea

Bob

Posted by: notafigjam at June 7, 2009 4:59 PM

I tell you what - I think dancing could be a way for many of you guys to meet women.

I take my daughter to her dancing classes each week. It's a mixed group of ages from teenagers up to about 50 somethings.

It looks so much fun. But there is only often 3 or 4 guys. And two of those are the main instructor and another younger instructor.

The 4th guy is with his partner each week. (I have my suspicions - I reckon they could be a couple who have linked up via a dating site. hehe)

Anyway just a thought for many of you out there, dancing could be the way to go. There are always more women than men at classes, you get to hear great music and learn lots of wonderful dancers. What more can you want?

Jen

Posted by: jenniferhi at June 6, 2009 8:15 PM

How's this for dancing letting the whole world watch.

I think it is so inspiring. Someone getting out there and enjoying life - and seeing the world to boot.

I hope you enjoy it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlfKdbWwruY

Maybe this blog will take off again. It's not just dancing like nobody is watching, it's doing so many things you have never done before. It's about taking risks. Stepping out of comfort zone. Following your dreams. Enjoying all that life has to offer. Isn't that what lots of us are doing by being on RSVP? Taking a risk. Putting ourselves out there again.

Jen

Posted by: jenniferhi at June 3, 2009 8:54 PM

Good on you Dolphina, I don't know how you remember so many steps. I think dancing is one of those things you can either do or not do.........well that is. Some people seem to have a built in sense of rythm and can move beautifully. Unfortunately I am not one of those and just feel a little intimidated when somebody else is steering me around. I can understand the fascination though and love to watch. I used to ride horses well though! I know that doesn't count.

Posted by: iaminperth at May 9, 2009 8:45 PM

I love ball room dancing and know approx 60 new and old vogue dances. I was originally aware of people watching me but now I don't care. The excercise and enjoyment I receive from a night of dancing is great. I do see people who attend dances and sit practically all night. Why they do that! there are many reasons. For me when I attend a dance venue I go there to dance and enjoy myself. It's great fun and you meet nice people.

Posted by: dolphino at May 9, 2009 3:20 PM

I love Ballroom, Latin, Ot/NV do 4 step R&R Have been told I'm a good dancer, but where does one go in Brisbane or the coasts to Dance these days.
There used to be quite a few venues but now???
When I dance I am fully aware of who is on the floor so I don't crash into anyone, but apart from that who cares about the rest...

Posted by: harley1941 at April 4, 2009 2:43 PM

I love dancing. Have done ballroom dancing and it was great fun. The only problem is I am tall and found my partners shorter than me and it was very awkward. It's also awkward dancing with another female. Seem to be more women dancing than men. I have also done belly dancing and that was amazing and a total workout at the same time. So when I dance I do a combination of ballroom and belly dancing with my own moves. It's nothing like dancing than thinking you are the only one on the dance floor. It's great!

Posted by: honestyrespecttrust at April 2, 2009 6:18 PM

Since I learned burlesque dance I'm really confident dancing in public - the only drawback is that no matter what kind of music it is I end up looking like I'm dirty dancing.

I really want to start doing ballroom again, but it's a bit out of my way to get to without a car, and the class I went to had a bad man to woman ratio so it was a bit like learning to dance with myself.

Posted by: smittenkitten85 at April 1, 2009 10:20 PM

I always let lose on the dance floor and block out anyone that is watching; I'm sure if my neighbours looked through the window watching my dance away the house work they would get a laugh! On a serious matter has anyone gone as a single to any of the ballroom dance classes? I'm doing a hip hop class at the moment (about all you can do in a group!) but really want to learn to do the rumba and jive etc, any suggestions/comments?

Posted by: poldark79 at March 18, 2009 12:39 AM

Mutualattraction suggested that a group be organised to go regularly dancing.I would be up for that! Anyone have any good places to learn Salsa? I'm looking at joining club Salsa....

Posted by: jezhia at March 6, 2009 11:59 PM

Hey everyone,

I just moved to the gold coast 2 weeks ago and had to leave my wonderful ballroom partner behind.

I am looking for someone who is a beginner (but has a dance history/learns fast) or intermediate ballroom/ latin dancer that is keen to get into competitions.

Posted by: cabbagefairy at February 27, 2009 9:22 PM

Hi Shall We Dance community members. I'm a tall guy who is hooked on competition ballroom dancing (i.e., Waltz, Foxtrot, Tango, Quickstep), but also do Salsa, Rock and Roll, Modern Jive, for fun, in Adelaide. The challenge, for me, with ballroom is to find a lady who is around 5'8" to 5'10" tall, who is fit, slim (atheletic) and really, really, wants to dance. This may sound like a "big ask" but the upside is a huge amount of fun and laughter and competitions around Australia, Are their any ladies our there who are genuinely up for this?

Posted by: leodancer at February 21, 2009 12:41 AM

I wish to learn to dance, because I like dancing.

Posted by: maryannestar at February 10, 2009 10:38 AM

How many takers for organising a group to go dancing on a regular basis?

Posted by: mutualattraktion at February 4, 2009 6:06 PM

"Lets Dance"...Chris Montez...

T:)

Posted by: heart2heart57 at December 25, 2008 2:32 PM

I love dancing. So much fun! But I would really like to learn contemporary dancing. I saw some pro contempororary dancers recently and they were amazing! As for the 'dance like no-one is watching' thing. Totally agree. When you go dancing look around a bit half the people are barely dancing anyway and it kinda looks more stupid to be on the dancefloor just standing around checking everyone out than to be dancing even if it's badly.

Posted by: swankykitty at December 22, 2008 5:46 PM

I am coming to Melbourne for a couple of weeks and would like to go dancing somewhere in the eastern suburbs. Can someone tell me a place to go? I am in to pub jive and have a little experience with some forms of ballroom and even line-dancing.
As for dancing like nobody is watching, who gives a F**K who is watching and what they think.

Posted by: intimidated at December 14, 2008 7:24 PM

Dancing ..oh yes...I can cut the floor rugs into pieces really?...hehehe..

Posted by: birdsofparadise at December 13, 2008 11:13 AM

Dancing like nobody else is watching is not my cup of tea. I do it the other way around. Wether I am alone or in public, I dance like everybody are watching! It would give me the motivation in making every steps perfect and enjoy it at the same time. I am supposed to be an International Salsa dancer but did not have the opportunity to dance for awhile in a proper dance floor. I do it a lot at home and I love every minute of it. Keeping fit and being sensual with myself. Shall we dance? Grace

Posted by: grace6988 at December 7, 2008 10:51 AM

I dance like nobody's watching when I'm at home with the music going while making breakfast, even at work when no ones around if you got the good tune going it's hard not too. I love my dancing and do most everystyle badly :-) But you gotta love the rythm and the beat to move your feet, and swing your hips and dance like no ones watching .....

Posted by: sorse25 at December 2, 2008 10:03 PM

To go back to the original question "Dance like nobody is watching" Quite frankly I disagree. I enjoy dancing more because I know people are watching. Performing to an appreciative crowd gives you so much more of a high than just dancing to an empty auditorium. If noone is watching I wouldn't put in as much of an effort. And in a club situation, since there are the dancers and there are watchers, you know that the watchers are comparing you with the other dancers. So you want to show your best moves. Blending in with the crowd is boring. Being different and standing out is so much more fun, that's why I never wear the standard little black dress to any party because that's what everyone else will be wearing. I always make sure that I put on a bright and sparkly number. That way I can stand out in more ways than one.

Posted by: sweetharmonie at December 1, 2008 11:24 PM

Posted by: waternymph47 at November 29, 2008 9:35 AM *pictures you whizzing around at 300 miles an hour*....I ain't easy being green...

Posted by: heart2heart57 at November 29, 2008 8:54 PM

Some days I can dance ... other days I look and feel like a "Frog in a blender" ... but I will always be moved to move with the rhythm! :-)

Posted by: waternymph47 at November 29, 2008 9:35 AM

Posted by: enchantinel at November 18, 2008 8:11 PM - You Hula... I'll Hoop :)))

Posted by: heart2heart57 at November 28, 2008 8:30 PM

My belly dancing peforming troupe is currently learning the tango in bellydancing salsa spanish style, its awsome and the music is the Michael Buble, SWAY, how cool is that hehehe looks fantastic when we perform it in double skirts and belly dancing gear. Who said you cant mix and match I love it just get lost in it totally..I think I am the youngest at 40 too seems you are never too old to dance and have those moves... SWAY WITH MEEEE
Cheers Nel

Posted by: enchantinel at November 18, 2008 8:11 PM

Has any one tried Rock n Roll. It is so much fun. It can be slow paced or fast and yes if you have a strong partner it won't take you long to pick up the steps and before you know it, you are Rock n Rolling like a pro. But the fun is also with two people learning the steps together. I went to a bowls club Friday night, where they have live singing and all the Rockers come together. To my surprise a lot of the women were dressed in the old Rock style. With the full skirts and the bob socks. How cool is that !!

Posted by: ella019 at November 16, 2008 6:52 AM

we tangoed....a simple version.... but he made me look like I could dance and it was fun :)

Posted by: aquamanda56 at November 5, 2008 8:20 AM

And that's what dancing should be. At one holiday I went on we had a night where they put on the music turned down the lights and got us all to just close our eyes ignore the other people in the room and dance. It was the best fun i've had in a long time on the dance floor and there was much mirth whenever 'closed eyes' meant people got over enthused and bumped into each other or a wall. We just picked them up, dusted them off and kept on dancing...

Posted by: moniquen at November 6, 2008 3:04 PM

Posted by: laughsandtalks at November 5, 2008 2:18 AM eeew

I went to a come and try night at one of the local dance schools which was lots of fun and I think I will start some classes. After the session they put on a variety of music for people to just get up and practice different styles. A Man asked me dance, a tango with him and I confessed that I had no idea how, he said not to worry he would lead me through....and wow, did he take control....he just guided me around the floor and we tangoed....a simple version.... but he made me look like I could dance and it was fun :)

Posted by: aquamanda56 at November 5, 2008 8:20 AM

Posted by: laughsandtalks at November 5, 2008 2:18 AM

Your remarks are totally incalled for Marcus, you are being very rude and I have taken offense to what you have posted. When I start tzalking you like THAT then you have permission to retalliate in that precise manner, but given that I am not as low as you, I expect that you treat me with some decorum and respect.

You are offensive

Posted by: sonny51 at November 5, 2008 8:02 AM

Posted by: softfeather at October 27, 2008 7:08 PM - Jay-Lo... ~*raaaoowrrrr*~.... plenty nice. Mind you, Richard Gere does a pretty good job too. Um... who says you can't do that in the kitchen, BTW? Love is where you find it... :) and double :))

Posted by: heart2heart57 at November 4, 2008 9:32 PM

I have a little giggle at the comments ... don't get me wrong I am a latina and love music, love to dance, love to hear it and music is part of my life in lots of ways. I enjoy the rythms of the salsa, merengue, tango, cha cha cha, cumbias ... I would like to point out however, that the lyrics of a lot of the songs are sexist and often not very politically correct. In spite of this I like millions of other love latin rythms and great for entertainment. Cheers
Annabelle

Posted by: annabelle1962 at November 4, 2008 9:27 PM

Dance is as old as time itself, in all cultures dance is an extension of ones beauty,especially for a woman, its the movement of her hips the beauty of her curves, and is the most natural sensual thing a woman can do for herself,its amazing how beautiful it is to watch someone lost in dance. I bellydance, tribal dance, what ever comes naturally tango salsa all of them together who cares, I dont care whose watching I forget I am even there, be it wherever I am dancing and have been known to dance alone you dont always need a partner. I believe its not about being a good dancer bad dancer, its about letting go letting your spirit soar and forgetting who you are and connecting with energy through movement to music what ever that may be enjoy get lost in it and feel the difference it makes. We are too reserved in our culture here with dance, let it all hang out I say, let go, it looks great, no matter who you are and what your dance experience when you let go, it takes you... think about it next time you watching those around you dance.Cheers Nel

Posted by: enchantinel at November 4, 2008 7:15 PM

My favourite is Tango ( not that I can dance it) I just love the rhythem of the music. I have Julio Englesias' Tango CD which has some awesome dance music.

Most of then stuff I have is for close up and personal, but......no one to indulge with lol

Posted by: sonny51 at November 2, 2008 9:15 AM

this is great!!!
i once had two left feet, and every time i got onto the floor to dance salsa both sides of my brains co-ordinate the jig to one side..
but when you feel the music deep inside then you let it guide the two left feet..... u'll never know what happened!!

when you connect to the language in the music of which you don't even speak! then music is in you...so crank up to any music that beckons your soul:)

where are the salsa & contemporary dance lovers??

Posted by: jitugal at November 1, 2008 9:40 PM

Posted by: lafileuse at October 29, 2008 2:27 PM - Hello lafileuse.

Go for it Goddess!!! "shake ya hips".. It's been years since I've closed a kitchen drawer or cupboard with my hands. My hips do the task for me. :))))

One day make your wish come true... just rip open the curtains & say hi (or hell) to the rest of the world... :)))) Crank up the music & go for it. The fun abandoned release of energy is uplifting for your spirit. With belly dancing you will connect with your soft feminine soul that sometimes becomes hidden or suppressed with realistic daily life.

These days I tend to dance with my little ones. My little Grandson does a mean dip & ohh we get so up close & personal when we slow rock. I love it! The feeling is so yummy. Just because he's cradled in my arms & on my hip doesn't distract from the joy we both share. My Granddaughter is a delight. Like her Mama she is a natural belly dancer. This little one is more into tribal dancing. She is very earthy & mimics movements that reflect the animal kingdom. When she was a babe on my hip we danced closely but now she's older understandably she likes her own space. From time to time I sneak in a slow rock with her but the occasions are becoming fewer.

Enjoy your liberation. Celebrate the freedom. Dance like no one is watching you. X X X

Posted by: softfeather at October 31, 2008 12:24 AM

I wish I could dance like nobody's watching ... except for when I'm in class, I'm an all-by-myself-in-the-living-room-curtains-drawn belly dancer. I like getting a bit wild with some old favourites, like the soundtracks to The Committments and Sister Act ... makes the housework bearable. Haven't done any couples dancing in a *very* long time. We used to do some ballroom dancing at our judo club parties in college (Sensei and his wife were also Arthur Murray dance instructors).

Posted by: lafileuse at October 29, 2008 2:27 PM

Posted by: softfeather at October 27, 2008 6:58 PM - ahhh I see the address has been removed.... I'll try again for "Back In Black" By Shakira.....

http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=rTQbLEDBMXM

Posted by: softfeather at October 27, 2008 7:18 PM

This one is for my gentle romantic side.... :)))) & I'm sure most remember this clip....

http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=bibtqDxXv1o -

Yum the Tango!!! Dancing up very close & very personal. This is NOT my idea for a dance in the kitchen. Yep take it out of the kitchen........ Learning this dance with a lovely man is on my bucket list!

soft sighs :))))

Posted by: softfeather at October 27, 2008 7:08 PM

One for the head bangers & yep I've been known to do this when I get caught up with HOT heavy music!!!! I just love a good tight band...... Again Shakira is the best hip shaker rock queen I seen for a long time....

Posted by: softfeather at October 27, 2008 6:58 PM

This woman is wicked. She is part woman part snake!!!! Shakira. A Goddess of the Belly Dancers.

Posted by: softfeather at October 27, 2008 6:52 PM

Whilst I'm not a great dancer I'm no bogan either. I have big feet (size10) and sometimes they ignore the messages my brain sends.
When the music is on I'm more likely to start singing rather than dancing.

Posted by: egernia at October 27, 2008 9:18 AM

dancing isnt the only thing thats can take one away. after being away for some time due to shifting and getting everything unpacked etc and my new place set up the way i wanted, i decided to play some music thru my pc. I put on one of my favs and with a glass of vino i sang, not too loud cos of the new neighbors and my cats thought i was barking mad, but very cathartic and made me realize that having things the way i wanted was nice. I slept well that night.

so its not just dancing but anything can make you realize how good things are

Posted by: unknownauthor at October 26, 2008 11:23 PM

and yet once again the post get booted out cos i am not registered. what a load of codswallop. If rsvp's software doesnt recognise my name then what the use of being here?

Posted by: unknownauthor at October 26, 2008 11:19 PM

Posted by: marylulu at October 26, 2008 1:52 PM

Yet again we are on the same page, how sensuous it is dancing with one's man in the kitchen, then you go back to the dishes and who knows from there where the mood will lead you but the smile stays:)

But for now it is just me and the mop, up close and personal dancing away to the music, without a care what anyone else thinks:)

Posted by: floss1958 at October 26, 2008 5:25 PM

Yes softfeather .... also my idea of bliss..
Bliss is dancing in the kitchen with ya man......
Posted by: softfeather at October 24, 2008 12:43 AM

Posted by: marylulu at October 26, 2008 1:52 PM

I too love the close up and personal dancing :) and I love greek dancing, very energetic and expressive :)

Posted by: sonny51 at October 26, 2008 1:24 PM

I've also found the courage to be the 1st out on an empty dance floor & every time I'm quickly joined by others who were just waiting for the ice to be broken. I encourage everyone to get out there before the music stops! Such good fun & so good for my back (I spend far to much time sitting at a PC).
I try to remember that if people are watching they will see happy people having fun - more fool them if they don't join in!

Posted by: smila77 at October 25, 2008 5:42 PM

Like "hipshaker at October 22, 2008 5:51 PM "
I too have learnt Middle Eastern Dancing .. thinking of taking it up again as it is excellent body work out which does not impinge on my already painfull spine and hips .. loosens them up in fact!

I think it took me till in my 40s to truly embrace the ""Dance Like Nobody's Watching" concept .. so much so that when I used to indulge in it at The Casino in Hobart .. the guys in the band soon learnt to play the songs that they knew I would not be able to sit down for .. knowing that once I started dancing a few other ladies would join me and so would the couples. Just needed one brave soul to get things started! I was more than happy to oblige.

When I took to doing my solo thing at the Union Hotel in Waymoth Street Adelaide .. I was dubbed Cyd Charise by the guys in the band which I accepted as a great compliment! They knew that either Caravan or Wood Choppers Ball (Tommy Richardsons signature tune) would always get me on the floor .. and if I was not out there at the first few bars .. Tommy would beckon with his drumsticks . and call "Come On Cyd .. show us your pins girl!"
It was a very sad day for many when Tommy passed away, but he's still to be seen on the internet in the Jazz page hall of fame .. and so am I as "Legend on the dance floor"!
Wouldn't be a wall flower for anything!!

Posted by: waternymph47 at October 25, 2008 12:56 PM

Bliss is dancing in the kitchen with ya man...... dancing in the shower is another one..... dancing in the supermarket..... dancing in the corridors at work.... yep I tend to have the plugs in my ears & get carried away by the music.... I forget where I am & the feet & hips just move by themselves... Happy Feet is cool with me 'cause I can't carry a tune in a bucket... :)))

Posted by: softfeather at October 24, 2008 12:43 AM

great clip tabata, really makes you want to get up and dance with those dancers and their really cool moves.

But Matt's appeal is his sheer and unadulterated dagginess, and the way he seems to make others revel in their own bogan moves :-)

Posted by: qualitygal1 at October 23, 2008 11:16 PM

My very favourite dance clip:
http://www.tica.net.au/Boogie.wmv

How much energy is in that?

Posted by: tabata at October 23, 2008 10:12 PM

Thanks for sharing Quality, that is awesome.
Matt should be a UN diplomat. See how something so simple can put a smile on so many faces :))))))

Posted by: hipshaker at October 23, 2008 10:00 PM

oops sorry, wrong clip

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlfKdbWwruY&feature=related

Posted by: qualitygal1 at October 23, 2008 9:35 PM

I think this guy has the dancing thing right

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFtTSisZtVY - he is a hero in a way

Posted by: qualitygal1 at October 23, 2008 9:33 PM

some very wise words here folks. Yes I agree that the release of endorphins when you are dancing at home or out takes some beating. I just dance when I'm out, mainly cuz why stand against a wall waiting for a fella to ask me. I just moooove to the groooove. If anyone joins me, than that's fine, if they don't then they don't.
But mostly I take the phrase as an analogy - one that ends with finishing your life slipping down the bannisters sideways going weeeeeeeeee!!!

Posted by: qualitygal1 at October 23, 2008 9:12 PM

You know that is not true for men, only women I think....one of my best friends who loves his music and dancing (and his wife) has got absolutely no rhythm...not for want of trying, but he just ain't got it...nothing. But his last girlfriend used to continually tell everyone how good he was in bed. But I speak for myself that having both is definitely an advantage....ha ha ha...(not a LOL person)

Posted by: simonyet at October 23, 2008 6:34 PM

So true Moniq, it's pretty hard to stay grumpy when your feet are tapping and your tush is shakin'! :)

Posted by: hipshaker at October 23, 2008 2:59 PM

It's the best legal mood elevator out there... won't clog your arteries, make you fat, drain your bank account or kill you...

Of course dancers make better lovers Simon... it's all in the hips ;-)

Posted by: moniquen at October 23, 2008 4:45 PM

Lol, SY, know you were teasing! But it is a very good substitute just the same!
Dancers who are in tune with their bodies and the music, have a natural talent for knowing what feels good, methinks!!! ;)

Posted by: hipshaker at October 23, 2008 4:36 PM

...the "better than sex" comment was only teasing hipshaker. Do good dancers make better lovers ? Ummm.....think so.

Posted by: simonyet at October 23, 2008 4:22 PM

Me too me too ...I adore dancing up close and personal ..OMG it's been so long.

And I'm also a belly dancer, it's so so so good for my soul. SO sensual and at last I'm not all wrong but absolutely a great shape to do it haha..

Posted by: marylulu at October 23, 2008 3:10 PM

So true Moniq, it's pretty hard to stay grumpy when your feet are tapping and your tush is shakin'! :)

Posted by: hipshaker at October 23, 2008 2:59 PM

One of my favorite quotes and one I definitely live by... get out there, turn on the Bee Gee's or some Donna Summer and boogie round your living room. The endorphins released into your system alone make it worth it.

Posted by: moniquen at October 23, 2008 2:15 PM

I agree with you SY, dancing can be a very sensual experience...particularly if you are dancing with someone special or you are connecting with your inner energy and spirit!
Might I say, same, but different... it's a great feeling, but ultimately it can't beat sharing that physical high with someone else! :)

Posted by: hipshaker at October 23, 2008 1:56 PM

Sometimes after a night of uninhibited dancing to some great funk or soul music, there is a reflection stage....in the morning you think about it...sort of "hope my free style dancing wasn't too fool hardy". But never while the music is inside and the rhythm has taken a hold of your senses and soul and the groove takes over...never.

Sometimes a hard night of sweaty dancing is better than sex...right !!!!

Posted by: simonyet at October 23, 2008 1:23 PM

Posted by: himagain at October 23, 2008 12:21 AM
Hi HA, you are so right, the mantra suits so many aspects of life and is a great code to live by. If you can't or don't love yourself, you can't expect others to love you!
Dance is a pure form of expression, and when you surrender to its rhythm you feel on top of the world!
The challenge is to translate that feeling to everyday life and it sounds as if you have that one down! :)

Posted by: hipshaker at October 23, 2008 8:30 AM

Oooops. I thought this mantra was a metaphor for all aspects of living ones life; not dancing. For me, the mantra means to live life to the max; no matter what others may do, think or say. Don't be ashamed of who you are; love yourself and love your life. Well, it will always mean this to me.

Posted by: himagain at October 23, 2008 12:21 AM

Dance like noone is watching, well for over 50 singles thats often the way - Saturday morning chores with the old favourites blasting! Where do we go in regional cities and towns if you l want to ge tup and boogie - coutnry dances still exist but again as a single its difficult and ften te women outnumber the men ! so dancing as if no one is watching.....

Posted by: tassieshiraz at October 22, 2008 9:34 PM

I love dancing and don't really care who is watching. I find dancing the one of the best stress relievers and a way to feel great without any drinking particularly before going for a great sleep. It is great to dance with company and enjoy that, but I would dance on my own if I have to. Cheers
Annabelle

Posted by: annabelle1962 at October 22, 2008 8:46 PM

At last a blog after my own heart!
I am definitely a dancer, not a watcher. I don't particularly care what other think because I lose myself in the music. I think it is the time when I am feel most connected through body and soul. Fortunately, I was blessed with one of each (left and right) in the feet department and can move well to just about any beat.
I have been learning the art of Middle Eastern dance (bellydance) for nearly 6 years and it is the most amazing feeling, particularly because the dance focuses on the movement and fluidity of the female form. It is a celebration of life and enervates me no matter what mood I am in. I don't know what I would do if I couldn't dance, it's my version of flying!

Posted by: hipshaker at October 22, 2008 5:51 PM