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Posted by: cheekydiana at October 22, 2008 4:37 PM - Anywhere that doesn't have Crocs would be a good start :)

Posted by: heart2heart57 at October 22, 2008 11:58 PM

hi, i am new to this but would love to find somewhere nice to go over xmas as this is the first one without kids, can anyone help me??

Posted by: cheekydiana at October 22, 2008 4:37 PM

I only have 12 months & 3 days to fulfill my dream of walking the west caost of Tassie. If anyone has suggestions of the "wilderness" not to miss please post. I hope to spend at least 6 weeks or more with a stop over on Kangaroo Island. All suggestions welcome... a bit of 4 star thrown in to rest the weary bones & sore feet needed but mostly B&B or camping... & good home grown stuff.... not the tourist thingo :))))

Thanking you

softfeather

Posted by: softfeather at October 8, 2008 12:59 AM

Hi Drifter Honey

Cool.. :)) Good to know we've got that one sorted :)))

I was in Broome a few years back. Unfortunately did not do the drive up like my kids. They spent 6 weeks up north & I want what they did!!! .. :))) but while I was in Broome I did bust the budget with a small plane flight up north to Cape Leveque & over the Buccaneer Archipelago. It was a small 4 seater plane & it was unreal. The flight was up the coast & the pilot took us down to check a whale & calf, dugongs, so many fantastic sights.. touch down at Cape Leveque for a swim & a cold one.. Then to the Buccaneer Archipelago & back to Broome via the inland, a half day trip & I used all the memory sticks before touch down back at Broome. I can't remember being soo quiet for that long!!!! My mind was on overload taking in all the sights. It took me days to digest all the info. I was so overwhelmed. I spent the last week in Broome walking everywhere (not the town site) at different times of the day to capture the colours, the sights, the smells, there was something I found so mysterious.

As I said in an earlier post it's "spiritual" & the country side is amazing.. real Pro Hart stuff. I finally understood what he was painting, the perspective he was seeing. All the years as a printmaker when I was repeatedly failed for handing in "pretty stuff" were finally so worth the effort in what I was trying to convey & what I feel about our country & environment. The colours are magic & the sights are breath taking. We live in an amazing country.

As a kid with gypsy parents I have road travelled a bit of NSW & some Vic & Qld. In those days we only camped & I loved it. Both inland & the coast from the Great Ocean Road, up through country that is magic. High country, low lands, our magnificent coast. The blue mountains when I was Blaxland trekking around the Three Sisters & Wentworth Falls. Sydney to Lightning Ridge, up inland to Queensland. One trip in the late 60's out west of Walgett?, I remember we drove through bush fires that were jumping the roads & the night sky was lit up like a city.

Later I did the yearly trip north chasing the surf & the good life. Only went as far as Cairns & no inland in those days. The kid was a tiny tot but she managed. The trips were south as well. Again chasing the surf & then the snow became an attraction for the thrills. The late 70's & the 80's were soo carefree for us baby boomers.

Then later the trip to Perth via the coast & on the way visited all the places I remembered as a kid. Almost a goodbye of the east. Took five weeks to arrive here & the kid spent the entire time on the back seat, with her feet up on the back parcel rack, ear plugs stuck in her ears & playing a silly hand held game & asking that annoying question all kids ask "are we there yet?". I dragged her out of the car every place we stopped & she thought it was all so boring. She now travels everywhere with her kids & never needs to drag her little ones out of the truck, the seat belts are off with the turn of the key & all jump out.. let the tribe loose :)) . They are rural kids. She remembers how she was once a city chick but somewhere along the way she connects with what I tried to show her.. a life style that can connect the two environments, city & country with a balance that reflects respect for this planet.

The thing I find amazing with the limited inland or far north travels I have done, no NT to date, I felt something very spiritual about the Kimberley's. It is Mama Nature stuff. My daughter also felt it & my Granddaughter. The boys just loved the rugged stuff :) But it was what my girls felt & talked about that made me feel so blessed about my family. They are connecting with the land & this is very important & rewarding for me. These things assist to validate my existence, my role as a mother & a nurturer for my future generations..

Drifter this is not for you 'cause you already know this:)))) but it's for those who read this post. We are not the owners of the land no matter what a piece of paper we hold & spend 40 years paying off tells us. We are the protectors, the nurturers, we are entrusted to maintain this environment for us now & our future generations & as a collective community we need to honour the privilege we've been handed. Please be gentle with our planet, respect it, care for & love it as you so want to care & love the future partner you now seek..

Gentle Blessings :)))

Posted by: softfeather at October 8, 2008 12:41 AM

" Gee but it's great to be back home..."
Back in my own comfy bed my own home!

I loved the Peninsula time .. From Adelaide to Yorke Peninsula and back in the first week then second week on the Fleurieu Peninsula.
Nothing like the green, green grass of home, catching up with friends and rellies & reminiscing to put one's life in perspective. Ive been a bit of a gypsy in comparison to my cousins but would not trade my life for anything. It's all going in the Book!
One thing I did learn from my overseas travels .. Not only is Australia a great place to be born & grow up in .. it is the desired destination of many Europeans, Brits, Asians, Americans!
We truly have a Jewell of a country! No need to seek the bright lights of New York, London or Rome .. for romance .. check your own part of the world!

Posted by: waternymph47 at October 6, 2008 11:40 AM

SF

By the way I know you were not having a go at me in your post, you pointing out a few things about the Kimberleys :)))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at October 6, 2008 8:08 AM

Posted by: softfeather at September 29, 2008 8:33 AM

Hi SF, lm planning on driving through SA & then just head north west & see some of the country on the way, l think it will take about a week to get there.

No lm not waltzing into anyone back yard, Im already setting up intros to the stations over there from stations around here, l will also drop into the little pubs around there & gt myself known in the area.
Yes I know about tribal & dry communties, I have worked in a few over the years

As for "think carefully as this is tough country & I have seen many who swear "never again"

SF l live in country like that for the more then 15 years, what other people call hell & the back of nowere.............I call it home :)))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at October 5, 2008 3:46 PM

Posted by: iaminperth at September 29, 2008 9:14 AM
Posted by: softfeather at September 29, 2008 8:33 AM

Hi, sorry for taking so long to get back to you, I have had computer problems for the last week.

First up I dont think l have not been clear about how I go on a trip or get to know a new area.

I like spending alot time in the bush & why I mean by that is that I will go deep in bush with my dogs minimal gear , set up a bush camp & stay for up to 8 weeks.

I do not do the tourist thing & l dont do the offroad thing........to really understand a place, you have to live it smell it touch it & see it not over days but over months, if l have to give a name to my thing, l live & move through the country alot like he bush tucker man, if any of you remember that ABC show :))

On this trip I will taking two fourwheel drives plus a canoe, one is my bobtailed landrover trayback, the other is a tiny cutdown suzuki softtop trayback which I tow behind the landrover on my offroad trailer with the canoe.

I have googled the Kimberleys & look at Explore OZ but the info l am after is not there.

Posted by: outbackdrifter at October 5, 2008 11:36 AM

Outback - Just google The Kimberleys and the sites will be there to look at. Also there are also bloggers recounting stories and experiences along the way. What they have found to be hell you may consider heaven and vice versa. Always something to be gained by another opinion. The list of sites will lead you along and you will be able to get first hand experience details from some people. I have travelled a lot of Australia but haven't done the Kimberleys as yet but will be travelling more in a couple of years time. Pictures I have seen of these areas are magnificent and obviously holds a fascination for a lot of people. What kind of business are you thinking of setting up ?

Posted by: iaminperth at September 29, 2008 9:14 AM

Hi Drifter - The website H2H suggested "Explore OZ" is one of the best for up to date info & a good place to start your planning.

My family used some of the suggested routes when they did a 6 week trip to OB/Kimberley, camping & 4wd with 2 kids & they had a ball. The photos were amazing.

Depending which way you plan to drive in, there are a few options to get off the beaten track. ie pick up the Canning Stock Route along the way.

As you would already be aware you don't just waltz yourself into someone else's back yard. Use your OB knowledge & you will find many contacts along the way. My daughter & partner are friendly people so by stopping to chat with the locals, & their kids jumping out of the truck to play with the local kids, they received quite a number of invites to places the every day traveller doesn't get to go. Again, as you would be aware there are dry & tribal areas/lands to be respected.

As many people have described the WA far north is a romantic place to visit. For some it can even stir a spiritual connection when really getting off the beaten track. But as Drifter has said, & H2H & TW could probably advise, these places are not the areas to do the "hold hands & drive into the sunset thing" without good planning... 2 days is lovely.... 2 weeks or more.... really think carefully as this is tough country & I have seen many who swear "never again"... :)))))

Posted by: softfeather at September 29, 2008 8:33 AM

Posted by: heart2heart57 at September 23, 2008 11:09 PM

Thanks for the info, Im not looking at the tourest thing, that why I was asking about off the beaten track info & yes your right so of it is closed off but there are ways off getting around that sort of thing, if you know who to ask .

Im looking at spending at spending 12 to 16 weeks up there for 2 reasons, first it will be my big northen safari, second Im looking at moving to there & maybe start a small busness

Posted by: outbackdrifter at September 24, 2008 7:02 AM

OBD - plenty do and see in Kimberleys. A lot of is has been closed to open access these days, but if you're into scenery, a Chopper flight from Turkey Creek over the Bungle Bungles is worth it. Heaps of good fishing to be had in many of the big rivers and the coastline. Broome is a balmy holiday destination for many these days. The northern part of Canning Stock Route winds it's way through part of the Kimberleys. The Tanami run comes out at Halls Creek, passing Wolfe Creek on the way. There's a zillion places to go, depending on your tastes. Google "Explore Oz", and you can read what others before you have seen and done. Hope this helps... H:)

Posted by: heart2heart57 at September 23, 2008 11:09 PM

North of Broome or Bust.............................
Im looking at doing a big trip next year, the Kimberleys is were I am wanting head at the end of the next wet season.

Want I am chasing is info on the area, from who travels off the beaten track in this part of the world

Posted by: outbackdrifter at September 23, 2008 9:39 PM

Home again. Returned from Launceston (and Tamar Valley region) a few days ago and didn't it put on a show for me. On it's best day it was 15 degrees and that was only day one. After day one it was cold, at times freezing, from a mild wind to gale force winds, overcast and rained off and on for most of it plus throw in a bit of hail. I was waiting for the snow but it didn't happen.
Outdoor wedding I went for was moved indoors.
It was great to get home. Mid 20s, sunny, light breeze, beach is lovely.
It is always great to get back home although it doesn't take me long to get itchy feet again and look for the next trip away.

Posted by: kazmaree at September 20, 2008 10:31 AM

Way to go, Tony!

Posted by: timewarp1 at September 18, 2008 9:44 AM

Posted by: timewarp1 at September 14, 2008 10:23 AM - Nah, no 'wicked witch' here. Just a free spirit let loose every now and then, using the minds eye see what the heart and soul are saying. Look deep, deep inside...into the very essence and ester. Find something there that brings peace and contentment. Wade through all the crud - the good stuff always sinks to the bottom. Ask any gold-miner.

Listen to it when it's available - it has no clock. It knows no boundaries, yet it can be locked away. Find the key, and open the vault. Let it rise, and soar on high. Release yourself unto yourself, and enjoy the feeling of being freed...

Posted by: heart2heart57 at September 17, 2008 10:59 PM

heart2heart57 at 9:22 PM: You crazy, mate? No way, Jose. Just a beautiful soul that comes out to play and sing now and then, before the wicked witch locks it up again.

There is actually a taught process for organising the finding of your best self, and releasing it into action. It's called 'dawn journalling'.

You get up in the morning every day, 15 mins before you have to, drink 500-750ml of plain water (some say warm, and if so, from sterilising kettle, not germy from brewing all night in sludgy hot water system.)

Then you sit down quickly and write for at least 7-10 mins (20 if you need to), whatever your subconscious has prepared for you during the night.

It might be a good or bad memory from long ago, or a job-list designed to make today a great leap forward in your life's journey. Or something far off past left-field.

The trick is not to decide what to write - just empty what your subconscious thinks is important at the moment, directly onto the 'page' without judging it.

Then read it back, think how reading it's made you feel (often tears, sometimes of joy) and then head off, determined to make today magnificent in some tiny way. Go man go!

Posted by: timewarp1 at September 14, 2008 10:23 AM

Posted by: timewarp1 at September 13, 2008 7:10 PM Thank you for your kind words - they mean something to me. I could never 'write for money'. Quite frankly, what I write is just an outpouring of memories that come flooding back to me, and what my heart says and feels at the time.

I don't consider myself to have 'the gift of the gab' or any other special traits. I just say what I'm feeling, and to have others appreciate that is a truly humbling experience. I could never 'do it' because I had to. It comes in fits and starts. Someone says something sometimes, and the sights, sounds, smells, and feelings come into focus. And while they are there, I pen what I imagine.

I am finding it enormously therapeutic - to be able to express myself in this way. Something I probably should have explored a long time ago - for I feel it's always been there, only I haven't found a way to let it out until now.

What I write is often selfishly for myself to read back. To see in my own words what I have at times struggled to understand. The magic of just being. The overwhelming love that resides in my heart that has paradoxically never been able to find a receiver. Most of my life has been awkward rather than eloquent. Often misunderstood. But I am what I am.

I am only just learning to trade outward blame for finding inner peace, tranquillity, and acceptance. It has proven to be a long and winding road. I dearly want to come out the other side as a better person. Sure, I fall back to my old ways, but for me, 3 feet forwards and 2 feet backwards means I'm heading in the right direction. Albeit frustratingly slow at times. To find my 'true love', I have to find it within myself first.

Life can be tough - this is my way of coping.

I recall sitting alone on a beachfront recently, and felt the warm flow of salty tears trickling down my cheeks. Simply because there was a magnificent sunset taking place. Some may think that I'm crazy. Maybe I am...

Posted by: heart2heart57 at September 13, 2008 9:22 PM

heart2heart57 at 7.48pm on 10th: That was just beautiful, T.
Do you write for money too, or just for the love of it?

Posted by: timewarp1 at September 13, 2008 7:10 PM

Posted by: eek990 at September 9, 2008 1:32 AM - Ahhh... yes... the 'calling of the wild'. The vibrant hues passing from bright yellows, through reds and into deep umbers, finally diminishing into a hushed purple haze as the sun beds down to rest over many an outback range. The sweet desert perfume that begins to bloom as the cooling air of the evening settles its precious moisture on the parched tufts of prickly spinifex and the delicate desert flowers that pop up, show their tiny vividly colourful faces, and disappear just as quickly to ensure the next generation of these desert marvels can rise during the rain of another day.

That feeling of total insignificance sitting at a T-junction, Darwin thousands of k's to the north, Perth thousands south-west, and Adelaide thousands south-east. The sharp flat blue line where the horizon meets the sunburnt land, hundreds of miles in any direction. The shiny little stones, sandblasted by thousands of years of desert winds, occasionally quenched by a rare and torrential deluge.

To feel the spirit of 4.5 billion years gently tugging at your heart-strings. For this is where it all began. Some of the oldest rocks on Earth, from a time when we were just a spinning, glowing disc of fragments of space. Gaze up at the Heavens at night, and the brilliant carpet of stars are all winking back at us. They have been watching over us since the dawn of time itself. And they offer us a little glimpse of that when we they grant us another new dawn of our own, streaking across a painted landscape as the night dwellers scurry off to cooler climes, ready to face another day, in a land far, far away...

Posted by: heart2heart57 at September 10, 2008 7:48 PM

I was a desert kid. Lived in Alice Sprigs for years and while I now lived at the beach, I yean to be back in amongst the red dirt and spin effects again. If anyone has ever been there, you'll know what i mean when i talk about all hose colours. I thought I was moving to a hot dry place but was instead welcomed to lots of rain, wild flowers and wild life. A sun set glass of wine with the MacDonnald Ranges as the back drop is my idea of serenity. I just can't wait to go back there one day.

Posted by: eek990 at September 9, 2008 1:32 AM

KM, your welcome :), if there is anything else about this trip you would like to know, I am more then happy to help out :))))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at September 7, 2008 12:35 PM

Posted by: istj54 at September 6, 2008 9:35 AM - That's just it. Once you're both comfortable with each other, Romance finds you. Even eating a pizza on the cliffs overlooking the bay, or fish'n'chips on the beach itself. Or in the deafening silence of our vast Outback. You can always pull out a white table-cloth on the camp-table, lay some shiny cutlery down, and light a candle or three. It doesn't need all the bells and whistles of a snappy restaurant, though a candle-lit dinner for two is hard to pass up :)

Posted by: heart2heart57 at September 6, 2008 4:16 PM

Outbackdrifter, thanks for the travelling suggestions. Had a look on the map and it does seem like a good way to go and once pass Nyngan I haven't been to any of the places before.
Although after the Mayor of Mt Isa suggestion that 'beauty-disadvantaged' women should come to Mt Isa it kind of turns me off going there. As if it is the main aim of women to marry a man. Really, he should wake up to himself! But I shouldn't judge a town by one person's comments.
Laughsandtalks, yes it would be easier to go via Adelaide but I have been on the road to Adelaide lot of times. I use to live there, awhile ago now. Thanks for the suggestion just the same.
Kaz

Posted by: kazmaree at September 6, 2008 3:39 PM

Sometimes we need to be truly comfortable in each others' company, then each others' homes before we can be in another place...such as a city hotel, outback tent...or Paris!...personally, I'd love to get to Prague before I die:))

Posted by: istj54 at September 6, 2008 9:35 AM

L&t, your right it is easier but its also no fun & boring :))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at September 6, 2008 9:23 AM

Kazmaree, Willows is right......its bloody bad, check out the Demo Club, best food in town, cheap & you can sign in as a visitor :)

Posted by: outbackdrifter at September 6, 2008 9:21 AM

Kazmaree - I have a tip - don't eat at the Information Centre restaurant in Broken Hill!
There are some great cafes and pubs there though :)

Posted by: willow29 at September 6, 2008 7:24 AM

kazmaree at September 5, 2008 9:22 PM
It is easier to start from Adelaide.

Posted by: laughsandtalks at September 6, 2008 3:29 AM

Posted by: okamhere at September 5, 2008 10:21 PM - I guess the thing is whatever makes you happy. Some people love their own dwelling and surrounds. Others love that of their partners. Sometimes a totally new place such as a hotel/motel/tent in the middle of no-where does the trick. The point is, comfort, love, and romance is where you allow it to happen. Should anyone be putting you down because you both find that in the comfort of one of the 'partners' homes? If that works for both of you, who the hell else cares?

Posted by: heart2heart57 at September 6, 2008 2:19 AM

Posted by: kazmaree at September 5, 2008 9:22 PM

Have a look driving out to Burke, then up to Blackall, then Winton, then Mt Isa, then across to Tennant Creek, then up to Katherine, on to Pine Creek & Darwin.

its a great drive & no worrys in a two wheel drive with care & I mean with CARE :)))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at September 5, 2008 11:22 PM

Okamhere, I don't know as yet when I'm going to Darwin or even if I will make it for sure. I want to go but it is a long trip by myself. If I go, it will be next year. Having just returned from one long trip and I'm going to Launceston next week (only for a week), I think I need to stay home for awhile. Plus I don't want to go in summer so will need to wait till autumn at least.

Posted by: kazmaree at September 5, 2008 11:12 PM

Faithfullinlove, I have just read you comments about going to Broken Hill. I have tried to reply a couple of times but it keeps telling me I’m not logged in, when I am, so hopefully this doesn’t end up being posted a few times.
I went from Newcastle so it will be different for you. I found there was lots of road kill, red soil and the shrinking of the trees the closer you get to Broken Hill. You will find lots of kangaroos, emus, goats and sheep next to and on the road (dead and alive) so there is a need to keep a close eye on the road. Which can be hard on a long trip as the eyes tend to get a little strained without you realising it. It is best to have lots of stops even if you don’t think you need it.
From my direction, the last couple of towns are 200 or more kilometers apart with only one roadhouse in between. So it is best to take food and drinks with you to have on your breaks at rest stops.
What to do when you get there depends on your interests. There are lots of art galleries and history things to see.
Silverton is very popular. A ghost town about 25km from Broken Hill. It has a museum that is a lot bigger than it looks from the outside. It has lots of old wares/photos/stories. If you go there also go to Mundi Mundi lookout (another 5kms) to see miles and miles of nothing. A lot of Mad Max was filmed on these plains.
The Symposium Sculptures are also popular especially at sunset. Need a key from Information Centre to get through gates.
The Photographic Recollects has lots of old photos on the history of mining and the community over the years.
I recommend you have the Information Centre as your first port of call to see what interests you and to get some maps. Or visit their website.

Posted by: kazmaree at September 5, 2008 11:06 PM

Just read the 'blog' about being at your partners house..and I agree.

Not being in your own home is GREAT!!! Does thinking like that make me a female chauvinistic pig? Nah..anywhere where you don't have to 'think' of your particular world and the responsibilities therein make a great place.

Posted by: okamhere at September 5, 2008 10:21 PM

Ahhh Kaz, I am soooo jealous!!! Wish it was me. I have done a similar trip (Sydney to Darwin) a couple of times...might be best to just get out a map and see what interests you and then work your trip out from there?

When are you thinking of going?

Posted by: okamhere at September 5, 2008 10:17 PM

I returned from Broken Hill today and looking for my next adventure. Has anyone driven from Newcastle or Sydney to Darwin? Any suggestion on the best way to go and what is a 'must see'. Looking at three or four weeks to do the trip. Noting, I do not have a 4 wheel drive vehicle.

Posted by: kazmaree at September 5, 2008 9:22 PM

Hi All,
I am Melb based and will be traveling to Broken Hill to revive the mind. Got a new car, so itching to take it for a drive. Never been there, so it should be fun. (27th Sept to 1st Oct) Am going alone, so do you have any tips?
Thanks heaps
Richard

Posted by: faithfullinlove at September 5, 2008 9:11 PM

Posted by: woodnwine at September 2, 2008 3:07 PM & Posted by: riversong01 at September 1, 2008 9:32 PM - Ditto.

Posted by: heart2heart57 at September 2, 2008 7:47 PM

"The most romantic place to be... is where you are with your loved one :)

Posted by: riversong01 at September 1, 2008 9:32 PM"

Whoa - there's an echo in here. Naturally, I agree.

Posted by: woodnwine at September 2, 2008 3:07 PM

Forget Paris?

Once you've been I guarantee you'll never forget Paris.
I was in France 4 years ago with my then 6yo son.
Being atop the Eiffel Tower was breathtaking.
Though not romantic it was still a *special* moment with my greatest love.

Posted by: egernia at September 2, 2008 11:12 AM

The most exciting experience I've done is flying hired helicopter with my American bestfriends, we explore around Grand Canyon and Colorado River, it was spectacular sightseeing for 40 minutes, there were only 3 passengers, I'm sitting next to the Pilot, so I got full view...

Posted by: aliane at September 2, 2008 8:57 AM

I agree with you Riversong1, ....nothing to beat being around with your love of your life, a simplest things having a coffee at Starbucks is more romantic than finest cities around the world- Ginza of Tokyo, Times Square of New York, Eiffel tower of Paris, Tower of London, Darling Harbour of Sydney, just names of few.....hmmnn where's my cafe latte....

By the way, I can recommend a romantic destination for lovers is in "Marianas Island", the views are breathtaking, the beaches is so beautiful, the seafood's are fantastic plus privacy, you could rolled in the white sand naked, very secluded and exotic....another bonus ..hula..hula dance and music....Sweetheart,.. where are you come with me in Paradise...lol

Posted by: aliane at September 2, 2008 3:40 AM

The most romantic place to be... is where you are with your loved one :)

Posted by: riversong01 at September 1, 2008 9:32 PM

..the holding hands to help cross the puddles, the pressing up close to keep warm, the entwining of her hair in his hand to keep the wind from whipping it across her face...

Posted by: willow29 at September 1, 2008 9:31 PM

Posted by: aquamanda56 at August 31, 2008 10:33 AM - Yep... even sharing a jacket to fend of the driving rain while outdoors can be romantic...

Posted by: heart2heart57 at September 1, 2008 8:49 PM

waterlilly - romance can be found anywhere .... if you're looking for it, with the right person.

Posted by: woodnwine at September 1, 2008 8:23 PM

There are plenty of romantic get aways in this country, have you not seen those shows..'.Sydney weekend' or 'Get Away'? But having said that, what makes a place romantic where ever you are is the person you are with. If you feel comfortable and relaxed, when conversation flows and silence is not awkward. When you pass by each other you want to just touch lightly or hug tightly and both things are wonderful. A place where both of you can just be.

Some years ago I went on holiday to Fiji with the children and my ex, we spent a week on Casterway island. It was a lovely setting and I particularly love the sand sea and tropics. It could have been romantic but the opportunity was lost. In the evening once the kids were in bed my ex was not interested in spending some time enjoying the evening... his idea of romance was a grab on the bum, wink wink nudge nudge..how about it? and then I should be grateful he fancied a bit... sheesh :|

Anyway, I know there are plenty of romantic escapes, it's finding the right partner that is the trick.

Posted by: aquamanda56 at August 31, 2008 10:33 AM

Woodnwine, you are right. Many people are attracted to your (anyone's, not just specifically wnw's, ok h2h) home because of the welcome and the aura that is projected. They feel comfortable, relaxed, safe and well taken care of.

No, you don't always need to have the perfect romantic backdrop, but it sure would be nice to run away to some fairytale, dreamy destination (as the topic suggests) for some high quality romance, away from the mundane, just once in a while.

My apologies for seeming brusque last week. I was thinking once in a lifetime wildly romantic getaways (once again, h2h, as the topic suggests), rather than the every day, home grown romance most of us live by.

Posted by: waterlily58 at August 31, 2008 2:56 AM

One of the most romantic settings on earth? Just returned from a fantastic night at Sanctuary Cove. We went on a Gondola ride with dinner and champers. Beautiful night. Not too cold. Great scenery in the moonlight. Very romantic! Can't get to sleep after such a great night!

Posted by: waterlily58 at August 31, 2008 2:42 AM

Posted by: heart2heart57 at August 26, 2008 9:24 AM

I was merely making a comment, based on my perception of WnW's previous comments. Am I not allowed to comment?

Posted by: waterlily58 at August 31, 2008 2:38 AM

thelynathdiary at August 15, 2008 6:42 PM :

My family used to call that an audible wink. Just one click, at the same time as the wink, so you'd notice.

(Just looked at this blog for the first time.)

Posted by: timewarp1 at August 30, 2008 6:01 PM

The place that always hits the spot for me is Bugs beach here on the Central Coast..

Another is Pearl Beach with the 15 streets that make up the suburb are all named after semi precious gems.

The beach is for swimming and surfing if you are game and can handle the swell..

The same can be said for Patonga that looks directly accross to Palm Beach in Sydeny NSW.

Somersby Falls is next to me and it still to this day takes my breath away xxxxxx

Posted by: amourmoi08 at August 28, 2008 9:50 AM

The best waves are in winter ..... wet suits are essential.

Posted by: woodnwine at August 28, 2008 9:11 AM

for me it is a beach, a big wide clean aussie beach, the south coast has heaps of them, I love the beach on a blue sky sunny hot day, so that you spend most of your time in the water...I also love lying on the beach and dozing.... I also love the beach in winter, when the waves are huge, the sky is stormy, it is windy and the waters are white peaked and rough, the passion of a stormy beach is breathtaking. I am missing the beach at the moment, am sooo busy that I haven't been since the June long weekend!!! will have to remedy that in the next couple of weeks...jewels

Posted by: junebaby57 at August 27, 2008 11:30 PM

I've seen a reasonable bit of Australia throughout my lifetime (although to be fair, haven't got to WA yet so Broome, here I come.... My pick would have to be Dunk Island. Even as a single, it's great! You lie on the beach, balmy weather, butterflies of all types flutter gently over you while you're lying down. They even land on you. The palms are swaying and there's the gentle swish swish of the waves against the shore. It even smells sweet and exotic. If you're really lucky and up near the clothing optional private beach, you might hear one of the staff playing their guitar.....

Posted by: doblondeshavemorefun at August 27, 2008 8:27 PM

Posted by: willow29 at August 26, 2008 9:30 AM - Yes, plenty of room. You can even bring your sister, Violet ;)

Posted by: heart2heart57 at August 26, 2008 8:21 PM

amourmoi, Hmmmmm I think you do both :p, have a good one :)))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 26, 2008 6:04 PM

WW, thank you, I really do like that idea :))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 26, 2008 6:02 PM

Outback as long as I do not have to leave my keys in the fish bowl I will go anywhere when I am in good company.... now do you put the water in the kettle or throw it out with the baby ...he he he :-) xxxxxxxxx

Posted by: amourmoi08 at August 26, 2008 4:32 PM

OBD - I think from memory it was set up as a dining room so he could have themed dinner parties.

Posted by: woodnwine at August 26, 2008 3:23 PM

Posted by: woodnwine at August 26, 2008 11:29 AM

Now that cool !!!!!, I will have to remember that one :))))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 26, 2008 12:13 PM

Posted by: amourmoi08 at August 25, 2008 6:32 AM

Hmmmm......A kettle !, I have heard of those things, the modern world is an amazing place :)))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 26, 2008 12:10 PM

I met a guy once years ago and he had a spare room in his house that he used to theme differently every year. One year it was French, next year Spanish etc .... kind of like a get-away when you actually couldn't. I liked that idea .... it sounded like a bit of fun.

Posted by: woodnwine at August 26, 2008 11:29 AM

amberlight - have to agree ... some homes just exude friendliness and others are very cold and impersonal. It usually has nothing to do with money, more to do with the people in it and how they welcome you and treat you.

Posted by: woodnwine at August 26, 2008 11:10 AM

Call me old fashioned but I came up with an idea?

Why not have an open invitation to the dream house, lover and the likes of good company in your own little Paris?

I love the use of language on this page but sometimes it can be lost in the translation of the reader.

You all appear to be grown adults except for me so why not show the admiration of others what your dream looks like in person.... wonder if anyone would take the risk?????????????????

Peace out xxxxxxx

Posted by: amourmoi08 at August 26, 2008 11:01 AM

Amber, I agree with the "feeling" of a house. I loved mine before I bought it because it had memories of a growing happy family imbedded in the walls and polished floorboards. The kitchen door frame had little marks where the kids were measured over the years, with their names and dates next to them.

Its still a happy house - most weekends its full of friends and kids and dogs. There's always plenty of wine and cordial :)

Posted by: willow29 at August 26, 2008 10:46 AM

"The best place to be ...... your lover's house, relaxing. Posted by: woodnwine at August 18, 2008 1:45 PM

How totally UNROMANTIC for your lover! Where is the relaxation for her? Um, after she's tidied the house, cooked and cleaned up and organised her kids and house for the next day? Ever thought she might like to escape the mundanityof it all, and get away to relax!
Men!

Posted by: waterlily58 at August 24, 2008 9:52 PM"

Love and intimacy are where you find them .... not in a manufactured environment, but where your partner is. It could be your house, his/her house, at the local pub, fish & chip shop ... whatever. Little things make the difference ...........

Posted by: woodnwine at August 26, 2008 10:35 AM

Kind of agree too WL, he might actually be willing to pitch in a bit too, so you can both relax?
I have this crazy idea that houses tend to absorb the personalities and happiness of the people who live there. (Yes Marcus, I know, absolutely makes no sense at all!)

Some small and very ordinary houses have such a warm friendly feel about them, while some architectural wonders built merely to show off, are cold, sterile and uninviting.
When you walk into a house, I believe you can feel whether it's a "happy" home or a "sad and miserable" house.
Maybe that is what WNW was describing!
The warm and comforting atmosphere of a "happy" home lived in by people who care about each other.
(My idiosyncriatic thought for the day!)

Posted by: amberlight58 at August 26, 2008 10:23 AM

I agree with h2h Waterlily. I thought woodnwines post was a lovely sentiment. And amongst the chaos of family life, I could think of nothing nicer than falling into your lovers arms at the end of a long day, and that he had made the time in his life to come over. After all, he can have heaps going on at his home and work too!

Jen

Posted by: jenniferhi at August 26, 2008 9:43 AM

H2H, I want THAT house! Do you reckon there's room for a pony?

Posted by: willow29 at August 26, 2008 9:30 AM

Posted by: waterlily58 at August 24, 2008 9:52 PM - What an unbelievable over-generalization. Have you ever seen this house? Have you ever thought that she may have just moved into her dream house? By the ocean? With sauna and spa? Waiters, maids, masseurs? That she might actually LOVE it there too? No. A male likes it over at his lovers place, and automatically he's some kind of chauvinistic pig.

Posted by: heart2heart57 at August 26, 2008 9:24 AM

Hey outback...keep the fire going my friend and when you are in my neck of the woods I will have a great billy to boil but in suburbia it is called a kettle.....but you are always welcome as are most ppl on this site..xxxx

Although I think there would be arguements over who should cook what but I will be busy when it comes to the dishes.....cause I have nice fingernails don't ya know and who likes latex gloves???? No dishwasher either oh wait let me go find some money and chew the coins over with the kids........peace out xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Posted by: amourmoi08 at August 25, 2008 6:32 AM

Prt Douglas and the surrounding NQ areas. To die for. Great all year round. Lot to see and do - if you want to. Excellent if you just want to relax and unwind with beautiful views, excellent restaurants, all amenities laid on and around the clock bar service!

Posted by: waterlily58 at August 24, 2008 9:54 PM

The best place to be ...... your lover's house, relaxing. Posted by: woodnwine at August 18, 2008 1:45 PM

How totally UNROMANTIC for your lover! Where is the relaxation for her? Um, after she's tidied the house, cooked and cleaned up and organised her kids and house for the next day? Ever thought she might like to escape the mundanityof it all, and get away to relax!
Men!

Posted by: waterlily58 at August 24, 2008 9:52 PM

margie18 at August 15,
There's an old saying 'I don't care what you call me as long as you call me.'
A slight slant on the ending for you -----
just so long as it isn't late for lunch!

OOO you guys are making this "travel bug" thing of mine sound better and better (still searching for the right vehicle -- for me!)
I definately want to be on the road by next April, got to head north out of this horrid cold down here.
Take care all, I love reading what you all are putting,
Sue.

Posted by: sindee50 at August 24, 2008 4:23 PM

deeemm, your welcome at my campfire any time you are up my way & yes amourmoi you are welcome too, we could cook a storm :)

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 23, 2008 3:26 PM

deeemm, Your welcome at my campfire anytime your out my way & that go´s for you to amourmoi, we can cook up a storm :)

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 23, 2008 11:04 AM

deemm I will share the fire with you around about that time.

I will be in coffs for four days for work and socialising so I shall watch for your Winnebago.

Then I am flitting off to the Gold Coast to catch up with some other friends that I have known for some time and try to do the task of working in between.....xxxx

Posted by: amourmoi08 at August 22, 2008 11:50 AM

Hi all...pleased to find this RSVP category. I'm a dedicated 5 star camper, off every weekend to explore as much of our country as possible.
Heading down to do the fabulous Narooma music festival in rearly October, followed by 2 more weeks of camping out & travelling around. Can't wait, but hope things warm up a little by then!
Any RSVP'ers out there who might like to catch up over a campfire?

Posted by: deeemm at August 20, 2008 7:23 PM

Eighty Mile Beach WA is the best place....

Camped there a week with no-one else around at all. You could swim when the tide was in. the creek there was ideal and just sit and relax in the shade when the tide was out.

Had two guys with us we met along the way... so company was great!! Better than the hubby at the time lol...

Posted by: blondeattimes at August 19, 2008 10:02 PM

Get your clothes on Marcus!!

The harbour looked pretty magnificent to me this morning!!!!

I think there is a "continental" man lurking inside you Marcus.

Posted by: musicteacher at August 19, 2008 10:41 AM

eatsrootsandleaves at August 18, 2008 5:17 PM
"...The harbour was pretty once i guess; before the developers got a hold of it..."

That would have been prior to 1788 I suppose.

nakedblogger

Posted by: laughsandtalks at August 18, 2008 10:35 PM

eatsrootsandleaves:

re; Europe

I was told when I was in Athens,Venice and Prague that it was common for a woman to have 2 lovers,or a husband and one on the side........maybe this is a "continental thing".

Posted by: musicteacher at August 18, 2008 7:14 PM

But ERAL, can't that be romantic? The caught in the moment rush, heady new love, new pleasures, indulgence in each other, the anonymity among the crowds?

Posted by: willow29 at August 18, 2008 6:22 PM

"Notoriously, Sydney seems to top the cliche worldwide romantic holiday lists."
Posted by Ellida August 12, 2008 3:34 PM

Does it ??

The harbour was pretty once i guess; before the developers got a hold of it.

Bondi?? Ohh c'mon, its positively dingy.

The thing that makes Sydney such a modern and interesting place, is in fact that it is SO unromantic.

Perhaps Melbourne , but Sydney ?

No city is more supremely indifferent to the past, or displays greater capacity for disinterest or self absorption, nor has a shorter attention span. Our readiness to follow the latest trends, and then abandon them with equal enthusiasm is what makes us so unique- so ALIVE .

Freed from those 'old school' politics and rituals of Europe; we represent a successful form of escapism; from all that what drove us here in the first place! ( except for corruption)

Perhaps thats it - Sydney's optimistic promise of unlimited possibilities. Our passion for careless entertainment and own pleasure.

But you'd be prepared to be meet a superficial a show-off, addicted to flashy hedonism !

(Opens a bottle of bubbles)

Cheers!

Posted by: eatsrootsandleaves at August 18, 2008 5:17 PM

woodnwine, Im with you...................The only thing is I have to find a lover & her house :(

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 18, 2008 4:49 PM

Posted by: thelynathdiary at August 16, 2008 1:41 PM

Chris, the thought of a lot of little Marcusettes at you feet is not appealing? Lol.
rgds grego

Posted by: grego7 at August 18, 2008 3:49 PM

Lynath, Good to hear! No shocking surprises?

Posted by: willow29 at August 18, 2008 2:34 PM

The best place to be ...... your lover's house, relaxing.

Posted by: woodnwine at August 18, 2008 1:45 PM

Hi Willow,
well, she is home safely.....

Posted by: thelynathdiary at August 17, 2008 11:30 PM

Lynath@1.41 - had me pmsl :)

Posted by: willow29 at August 16, 2008 2:19 PM

RSVP where's my post to Marcus from last night?
Can't remember it all now but sorry Marcus I am not going ..a bit too weird for all concerned!
My greatest fear in life now is that you will go to the RSVP night, meet and fall in love with my daughter and become my son in law....

Posted by: thelynathdiary at August 16, 2008 1:41 PM

Waternymph47: Thanks for your interesting comments. With regard to the 3 jobs - I am now doing teaching in lieu of the Marketing - as I have found that it's the only job which pays a half decent Salary. I really loved the Counselling - but since mortgage stress hit, that has practically dropped off. Am putting on a concert feat. Barbara Morrison (USA - vocalist) on Sunday, and then dragging myself off to teaching on Monday - It's like 'the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak': Translate: I wish the old bod could keep up with the brain. But I have a mortgage to pay and I wouldn't have it any other way,

Posted by: margie18 at August 16, 2008 12:30 PM

I don't know if I should say this, but that nevers stops me.... back in the 70's when every honeymoon couple worthy of the name aspired to a Haymen Island Honeymoon, it was dubbed by airline stewards Hymen Island.......

Posted by: thelynathdiary at August 16, 2008 12:18 AM

thelynathdairy August 15, 2008 6:42 PM

That was me trying to pluck courage to ask what time you will be at the Brighton do tomorrow.
Cheers Marcus

Posted by: laughsandtalks at August 15, 2008 8:24 PM

Margie.........Hayman Island is even more beautiful and not so crowded.........expensive but worth every cent.......I was married in a tiny Chapel there.

Posted by: musicteacher at August 15, 2008 8:16 PM

margie18 at August 15, 2008 4:32 PM
Margie, Im impressed that at your(our) age and living in Adelaide you have not just one job but 3!
I'm a born and raised Adelaide/Yorke Peninsula girl who's seen a bit of the world, raised 2 kids, and got a fat Resume to prove where Ive been and what Ive learned but I was not all that good at getting even 1 paid position in Adelaide.. Volunteer Oganisatins adore me though!
I think the "Hey Babe!" thing, depends on who & how it's delivered. I also said I hated to be called "Rosie" as it's a name for a cow or a dog. Yet one very tall gorgeous singer when I was in Hobart .. could sing "Rosie" at me over the mike mid song as I entered the Waves Bar on a Saturday night .. and I'd melt, give him a wave and a big smie and feel honoured!

PS. Ive had some romantic rendezvous in Hobart too .. so nope .. Paris is not all there is!

Posted by: waternymph47 at August 15, 2008 8:03 PM

Funny comment from one of my students today, when we were discussing last year's camp. We went to Waratah Bay and went for a walk along the beach at sunset and she said today that it was soooo romantic...she's nine:))

Posted by: istj54 at August 15, 2008 7:31 PM

Hey Lovey! Good on yer darlin' :)

Posted by: willow29 at August 15, 2008 7:17 PM

ps one of the best romantic places to visit before you die is NautilusRestaurant in Port Douglas FNQ. They have a website with pictures.

Posted by: thelynathdiary at August 15, 2008 6:44 PM

Hey Babe? Today I got not just a look (leer? gawd, I hope so...) as I passed a man in his late 50's in the street, but wink and a noise which I had not heard for years...one which used to be as common as wolf whistles from building sites...
How to describe it....sort of a "clickclick" made with the tongue on one side of the teeth- a bit like the sort of noise for making horses move... I was expecting him to say something like " Yer a good sort Darlin"" which seemed to go with that noise in the past
Anyone?

signed.

Loveydoll.

Posted by: thelynathdiary at August 15, 2008 6:42 PM

Waternymph47: I have to disagree with you on the 'Hey Babe' bit. If someone called me that I'd be pleased/flattered - at my age (61) (Mind you I have been around musos for 19 years who call me 'Man , mate , Marj and Marg.') There's an old saying 'I don't care what you call me as long as you call me.' It's really 'horses for courses.'

Posted by: margie18 at August 15, 2008 4:32 PM

lol, there had to be someone! :)

Posted by: willow29 at August 15, 2008 11:06 AM

Wow .. willow you just described my kind of romantic getaway.
I have to agree with that "Hey Babe" nonsense especially now I'm 60 and get it not only from guys way younger than me .. but from guys who "don't know me from a bar of soap". Mum's old remedy just came to mind then for people who say inappropriate things .. "Wash your mouth out!" LOL

Posted by: waternymph47 at August 15, 2008 11:01 AM

Good one, outbackdrifter!

Wow willow,
Those are the moments that make you appreciate being alive and well aren't they?!

Posted by: amberlight58 at August 15, 2008 10:26 AM

I guess the city of love is in reality where ever you want it to be. Somewhere where the romance does it for the two of you.

A beach ( as so many put on their profile) a log or open fire place ( as above) all romantic .

One shouldnt set limits.

I personally would like to find romance anywhere, but as for a place some parts of New Zealand are perfect, and also Scotland.

Posted by: unknownauthor at August 15, 2008 10:19 AM

Uluru is both iconic and romantic

Posted by: campcooking at August 15, 2008 10:05 AM

Willow, Hey Babe.......................sorry I could not help myself ;p, it sounds like you really live in one of the more beautiful part of this country

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 15, 2008 9:49 AM

This morning, I was walking my dogs. The sky was a dark slaty grey and masked the sunrise. A huge orange hot air balloon started descending on the horse paddocks behind my place and I was thinking it was disappointing that the occupants missed the sunrise. Then three things happened. A flock of white ibis flew up from the paddock. The sun broke through the clouds and kissed their wings making them whiter than white and then a rainbow plastered itself against the grey clouds. What a magic descent!

As a footnote, the couple got picked up from the paddock and taken to the houseboat that they've hired for the weekend.

Posted by: willow29 at August 15, 2008 9:28 AM

Ah gotcha, thanks Jen :)

Posted by: willow29 at August 14, 2008 10:03 PM

Umm Willow ~ Put it this way, there are camera's everywhere. lol. But I suppose those that like to spread the love (or lust) around the world - well go for it. But just be aware. You are being watched. Lol. Jen

Posted by: jenniferhi at August 14, 2008 9:55 PM

Waternymph, hot air ballooning is definitely one to put on my bucket list - thanks for that reminder.

Ooh and anyone who hasn't seen the movie - go see it :-)

Posted by: qualitygal1 at August 14, 2008 7:36 PM

Waternymph, your bucket list should never stop growing.........................thats what living life is all about :)

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 14, 2008 6:59 PM

Outback, I have not seen the movie Bucket list but plan to soon! I made a list in my teens of things to do and have crossed of many but still keep adding on to it!

Posted by: waternymph47 at August 14, 2008 6:39 PM

Energia, I also thought it would be beautiful to wed on Hamilton Island (on the beach.)
I have to meet someone first.

Posted by: margie18 at August 14, 2008 6:13 PM

Margie18

Hamilton Island is a beautiful place. Is that gorgeous non denominational chapel perched high up on the hill still there?
If so, with the spectacular views, it would be a very romantic place to wed.

Posted by: egernia at August 14, 2008 3:07 PM

mousaikalliope, very true, to all you said about this lovely place we live in here in Tassie - and nice to have another contributor from our fair isle :)

Posted by: malsie at August 14, 2008 8:37 AM

Try somewhere along Cable Beach at sunset.....well away from the madding crowd.A bottle or two of a good cold bubbly some elegant nibblies,and then ENJOY the vista as the "stairway to the moon" displays its glory over the water.........

Of course it does help if your (illegally )parked camper is well above high tide mark

Posted by: kurli at August 14, 2008 7:34 AM

Jen, Im intrigued. Can you elaborate a teensy weensy bit?

Posted by: willow29 at August 14, 2008 6:43 AM

Hey Willow ~ Re romance in the elevator. After an email I got last week, don't think thats a real good one to pursue these days. GLAB. Jen

Posted by: jenniferhi at August 13, 2008 11:23 PM

I have to say that Hamilton Island (Whitsundays) would have to be the most stunning place I have been to. Of course when you come from a 14 degree day in Adelaide to 28 deg. at HI, that helps. I went to a jazz conference there, and stayed on and explored the island. The scenery was breathtaking, (I'm sounding like a travel writer) everyone was so relaxed, and I was impressed with the hospitality of ppl driving round on their mopeds, who would stop and pick you up and drop you at your destination. In fact it was so relaxed that luggage was continually being dropped at the wrong rooms - which no-one seemed to mind, the lack of organistation was a bit of a hoot. You don't get that sort of hospitality in Adel. .

Posted by: margie18 at August 13, 2008 9:43 PM

Hey all i seem to be reading in retrospect here... and in doing so i couldnt fault "dun 75's" comments pertaining to the eastern coast and hinterland of the great isle of oz then i read further and i was very impressed with "mousaikalliope's" views on the "isle" down south.. i have lived up and down the east coast of Oz and also travelled o/s but i am bemused as to why others choose to travel o/s to experience "romantic" places.. to seek the wilderness.... hidden beauty... unspoiled beaches... secluded rivers... rock pools... snorkeling off islands... that good ol' oz has to offer...

Posted by: thornbird64 at August 13, 2008 9:10 PM

Hey all i seem to be reading in retrospect here... and in doing so i couldnt fault "dun 75's" comments pertaining to the eastern coast and hinterland of the great isle of oz then i read further and i was very impressed with "mousaikalliope's" views on the "isle" down south.. i have lived up and down the east coast of Oz and also travelled o/s but i am bemused as to why others choose to travel o/s to experience "romantic" places.. to seek the wilderness.... hidden beauty... unspoiled beaches... secluded rivers... rock pools... snorkeling off islands... that good ol' oz has to offer...

Posted by: thornbird64 at August 13, 2008 9:08 PM

Jen, Very true...................Live & love like you are going to die tomorrow

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 13, 2008 8:59 PM

I have the bucket list too guys. Great movie that by the way.

Dream big! Amazing what comes to pass.

Jen

Posted by: jenniferhi at August 13, 2008 8:49 PM

Waternymph, thats great, sounds like you are going to be busy for the next year or so.
You are right, the little things are important to set the mood & atmosphere for a romantic day or night out & yes it really sounds great :)).
Im also glad to see someone else has a bucket list besides me ;p

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 13, 2008 8:34 PM

Jen, yes they are popping up in most places but one from the Yarra Valley would be tops, the wine & local food is really great there, it would be hard to beat :)

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 13, 2008 8:24 PM

Thanks Outback but I think the moment has passed on that enterprise .. and now I'm hoping my next proffession will be to help others like me who have lost the romance in their lives and need some help to find it.
I'm embarking on a year's Online study course to become a Counsellor.Who knows at the end of it I might look at the picnic idea as a sideline as well. I feel the Elegant Picnic concept is something I'd like to share with a (Business) partner, team work is always better. Maybe with someone who owns there own yacht or power boat to combine it with a water cruise and a stop off on a bank of the river or a dock.
I know what I like to create in the way of romantic atmosphere. White cloth on the table, candles, 2 perfect roses in a vase and the kind of food you can feed one another accompanied by a great wine(or whatever they prefer)
Hmm does sound lovely doesnt it ?
And yes Willow .. a ballon ride is still on my to do(bucket) list !

Posted by: waternymph47 at August 13, 2008 8:10 PM

outbackdrifter and Waternymph ~ I was at the Melbourne gift fair last week and there was a company there promoting their simply amazing picnic hampers. Everything you need for a romantic interlude for two to much larger ones for family fare. Some even had eskys built in.

Here in the Yarra Valley some of the local businesses arrange hampers for special occasions. Filled with lots of the yummy produce from the area. Oh, and of course from the local wineries.

Jen

Posted by: jenniferhi at August 13, 2008 8:08 PM

Waternymph, I really like the idea of a up market picnic hampers, its idea I have played with on & off for years, I think you should go for it ;)

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 13, 2008 7:44 PM

Willow; I´m pleased to hear that, I must admit I have never been in a hot air balloon ride But I do like that idea too :)))

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 13, 2008 7:35 PM

I dare say - we have lots of balloon operators here too - maybe a sunset balloon ride followed by dinner in the moonlight?

Posted by: willow29 at August 13, 2008 5:59 PM

There ya go Outback ... maybe I should have been teaming up with you as a business partner for my idea of elegant picnics:-)
Waddya think Willow .. any room for that in Mildura ?

Posted by: waternymph47 at August 13, 2008 5:40 PM

Mine either, to tell the truth :) I like your idea much better!

Posted by: willow29 at August 13, 2008 4:17 PM

Willow, True but an elevator would not be my first choice for a romantic night out ;p

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 13, 2008 3:04 PM

I certainly helps! But you can find romance in an elevator if the situation is right *vbg*

Posted by: willow29 at August 13, 2008 2:05 PM

Willow, I agree the who is alway more important then the where........but the where can make or brake the outcome of the evening :)

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 13, 2008 1:48 PM

I agree Outbackdrifter. But more often, it doesnt matter where you are, but who you're with that makes a situation romantic.

Posted by: willow29 at August 13, 2008 11:26 AM

The Outback is one of the most romance location I can think of..................A candle lit dinner under a desert moon is hard to beat

Posted by: outbackdrifter at August 13, 2008 11:05 AM

I have beautiful memories of Cradle Mountain; the beauty and serenity. Watching the colour changes of the rock at sunrise and sunset at Uluru.

Posted by: egernia at August 13, 2008 9:16 AM

Just thought I'd get my 2 cents worth in...have spent a lot of time on the big island, but if you want romance and truly unspoilt beauty, come on down and visit me.Tasmania has all one could want (apart from the beautiful huge wide open spaces of the outback, of course, we are not big enough.But if you want rugged ,mountains, lakes,romantic seclusion,or beaches(think wineglass bay, or wild surf beaches(shipserns bluff)), harbour cities,rainforest etc ...this is the place. The natives are friendly, food can be sublime(ask a local the best places to go) and the scenery is gob=smacking!
Like most Tasmanians who leave I am now back to live,still want to live in other places , to experience them(with parents from nsw and vic, and rels in every state )I know I'll always come back here. If any of you are heading this way let me know and I'll share some local knowledge (and the yummiest food and wine(or whisky! Lark distillery)or beer(cascade...made with the purest water in the world,in a brewery in the foothills of Mt Wellington).
However...if you are with the soulmate we are all (well most of us in here I imagine)
looking for,anywhere can be more romantic than Paris! Have had a taste of such happiness, and am back for another try...may we all find such bliss! in the meantime hugs to you all!

Posted by: mousaikalliope at August 13, 2008 6:13 AM

I probably sound cliched but Daylesford - somewhere really decadent, like The Lakehouse, in a room that overlooks the river.
With Alla Wolf Tasker's superb cooking in the resort area restaurant and a spa/massage.

Bliss

Posted by: qualitygal1 at August 12, 2008 10:48 PM

Yah Dunk - even the 'outback' is strangely romantic. Hauntingly so...

Posted by: heart2heart57 at August 12, 2008 10:47 PM

Posted by: nrg07 at August 12, 2008 10:06 PM - Melbourne calling! Please deposit another shilling...

Posted by: heart2heart57 at August 12, 2008 10:45 PM

Oz is more about natural romance and love of nature, more so than suburbia or cosmopolitan finesse.
I say anywhere along the north-west coast of Western Australia, the hinterland forming the border of NSW and QLD, or Pink Lakes in the Murray Sunset National Park (North-Western corner of Victoria (100km slightly west of due south from Mildura).
Untouched coastline, gorgeous sub-tropical rainforest, and the desolate beauty of an "almost" desert respectively. All three are romantic destinations for two like minded people!

Posted by: dunk75 at August 12, 2008 10:35 PM

Venus Bay....beautiful surf beach, wild and woolly, spectacular sight!..............K

Posted by: auntykaz at August 12, 2008 10:06 PM

Our Islands in the Whitsundays are stunning and some are very romantic with the crystal blue water and white sand, sitting under a palm tree with a cocktail in your hand, looking at the boats on the water ...

Call me if you need a holiday ... :)

Posted by: nrg07 at August 12, 2008 10:06 PM

There's about 13,000 miles of coastline in Oz that must qualify for this category...

Posted by: heart2heart57 at August 12, 2008 10:03 PM

And no, I don't have a big pear, before anyone gets really fruity. They are medium-sized.

I'd also want to put in a word for South West Rocks (yes, it really does rock) and lovely historic Arakoon nearby. Somewhat south of Coffs, in case anyone doesn't know this part of the NSW coast.

Posted by: missrule at August 12, 2008 8:46 PM

Amour Amour is all around town, in my mind and in my house.
I look to my kitchen and see every country there is to taste.
I look at my fridge and see the delights waiting to be eaten.
I look to my shoes and fall in love with the eastern european contries.
I spray my perfume and go to paris, rome, sydney - everywhere everday.
I listen to my german friends and try to copy poorly.
I keep in contact with my exchange students in Nan Jing to keep up my Chinese skills and broken English.
I get into my Australian car and support Australians everyday by shopping local, they know my name and I know thiers.
There is no better place for me to be than right here in my own home, in my birth country loving every minute of every day in every way with all the good apples.
Life is what you make of it and loves will always come. Amour Amour LA K xxxxx

Posted by: amourmoi08 at August 12, 2008 7:59 PM

Frangipani Beach, at the very top of Queensland (and Australia). It was magic on my honeymoon.

Posted by: joyfuldelite at August 12, 2008 7:59 PM

Who needs the Big Apple - we have the Big Banana (Coffs Harbour). Sorry, couldn't resist.

Dreamy, though ... romantic ... hmm ... how about the Blue Mountains? That area always seems to get overshadowed (not literally) by Sydney but it's truly gorgeous, especially in spring. I'd also vote for Margaret River, where I had my honeymoon (enuff said!).

Cheers, Claire

Posted by: missrule at August 12, 2008 7:26 PM

When I lived in Switzerland I suggested more than once to my husband that a few days in Paris might be nice since it was so close handy .. could have taken the train even!
But instead he waited a few years and took his Secretary to Majorca for a week(telling me he was taking some space alone)

I think we have many lovely places in Australia every bit as good or better. Not being all that keen on Sydney or any big city, I'd love to be anywhere out in the country, preferably near lake or river, or one our many great beachside places.
A great romantic holiday for me would be a trip down the Murray(while it's still got water in it) either on a houseboat with no one to intrude on our privacy and moving along at our own pace .. or on the Murray Princess being waited on and taken care of while relaxing together.

Posted by: waternymph47 at August 12, 2008 6:29 PM