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Rekindling Romance!
It looks as though a whole lot of passion was sparked by the topic of Romance, so forget the drought and hone in on your own, personal take on Romance. We each have a slightly different sense of romance. Even couples who have been together for years can misunderstand one another's romantic tendencies, leading some to believe that their spouse or partner isn't romantic at all!
Recognising your own and your partner's romantic personas can help you find romance in even the smallest gestures or words. So rather than focussing on the chivalrous antics of our forefathers and how woeful it is that we shunt them in modern day, lets focus on the little, special, unique and innovative ways romance can be and is demonstrated today.
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 12:23 PM
Comments (599)Did it deserve the Oscar?
Over the past 80 years, flicks have been given the nod by the Academy, and have been awarded with the statuesque golden guy we know as Oscar. Sometimes (or quite often) we find the gift of gold was completely unjustified. How many times have you believed the hype, or been sucked into a movie because of the exposure it attained through the Academy Awards?
Does recognition from the industry sway your opinion about a film? Or are you quite happy to disagree with the Oscar powers that be? How many times have you seen the awards ceremony and shortly after, found yourself in a cinema at the mercy of your own curiosity? Have you ever referred to a list of award winning pictures to decipher which will be the DVD you hire? Or do you feel the award tag is overrated and mostly attached to undeserving films? You be the judge.
Posted by in Movie Buffs Archive at 5:53 PM
Comments (237)Miner Misconceptions
As with any industry, there is a list of mistaken beliefs attached to Mining - forming common misconceptions around the vocation. If you are a Miner or you know a miner, you would know that today, mining means more than digging beneath the Earths surface. Jobs in the mining industry range from engineers and lab technicians to geologists and environmental specialists.
Degrees and qualifications are offered widely for professions in mining, and the list of professions is endless - lawyers, public relations specialists, sales reps, and equipment/machine manufacturers to name but a few. Tell us about your experience in the Mining industry, your experience with someone from the mining industry or - post your perceptions so that miners can dig out (so to speak) the truth from the misconception!
Posted by in Mining Men Archive at 4:53 PM
Comments (102)The Book Was so much Better!
It seems all literature at some point is brought to life (sometimes massacred!) in the form of a major blockbuster film, or adapted to a low budget indie flick. There are countless movies that should have remained on paper, but there are also many films that successfully depicted the books they were drawn from. There is also the rare circumstance where the movie blows the book out of the water.
How did you feel when they turned your favourite novel into a sure-fire box-office hit? Or when your most loved character from a book was portrayed by a most insufferable actor? Has there been a time where you loved a movie, which encouraged you to read the book? Has a film director ever reflected a vision, similar to yours, of your favourite story?
Posted by in Book Worms Archive at 4:01 PM
Comments (151)The Romance Drought!
Have you heard about the infamous romance "drought", the common belief that romance no longer exists in modern day society? Is it possible that the only remaining traces of chivalry are those that are etched in history books? Or do you believe it is alive and well today? Has romance been restricted to medieval times, and are you, the romantic at heart, struggling to survive the pessimism of our modern culture?
Or are you content, deeply cemented in realism, viewing romance as nothing but a fabrication? Do you cringe when you come across romantic literature, film, music etc. Does gallantry make you gag? What is your idea of romance, whether you believe it exists or not? Have you experienced romance? Share your stories, turn sceptics to believers!
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 12:47 PM
Comments (527)Does life really start at 50?
You've heard it a million times, "Life starts at 50!", so from experience, did life really start when you hit the big 5 0? Is it true that the older we get, the less important our egos become? Do you become less inhibited because you have experienced enough to know that the small stuff is just that, small!
Do you realise that life is too precious to be concerned about the way you look, the things you own, and the petty issues between longstanding friends? Or, do you hit a mid-life crisis and decide to reverse time with the likes of Botox and sports cars? Do you become more superficial (if you'll admit it!) and try to outsmart your own years by synthetically trying to keep yourself youthful? What is most important to you - a tight vacant face, or lines that share your stories with the world?
Posted by in Over 50 And Fabulous Archive at 5:55 PM
Comments (317)What's your ultimate breakup song?
Yes, we all have a favourite. Don't deny your unyielding need to listen to that atrociously depressing song the minute your relationship has broken. Depending on the direction your relationship eventually took, you may be more inclined to listen to Stevie Nicks call out the cathartic words "you can go your own way". Perhaps your tastes veer to an angry Alanis number?
Are you guilty of dusting off your Whitney record for a tear-jerker to really dry your eyes out? Or, do you prefer to empower yourself Gaynor style with an "I will survive" attitude? Whether you're missing someone like the Stones or wanting someone back like the Jackson Five, tell us about your favourites!
Posted by in Music Lovers Archive at 4:50 PM
Comments (247)Switching Cafes for Cattle?
In pastures miles from just about anywhere, in a secluded reality, undergoing long hours of tough labour - there is an untapped legion of singles. It is no wonder farmers sometimes experience 'slim pickings' in their harsh surroundings. What can this rural lonely hearts club do to meet potential partners? And what if, when they do eventually meet, the fabulous new person hails from the metropolis! How can you convince a city dweller to completely shift their lives to move to a country town?
This also poses the question: are careers and metropolitan lives more important than love? Would you switch your comfort zone and take on a whole new world for someone extraordinary? If you met your dream partner, would you sacrifice your Cafe visits and designer shoe access to live with him amongst the livestock?
Posted by in Farmer Wants A Date Archive at 2:20 PM
Comments (177)Unrequited love...
Ah, the sweet sting of love unreturned. Just about everyone at some stage in their life, has admired someone (secretly or not so secretly) without having the favor returned. Whilst it may not have been love in hindsight, the pain was enough to make the emotion feel real. Perhaps the basis of that person's appeal was the desire for the unattainable? How many times have you broken your own concept of reality to indulge in the sheer pleasure of a crush?
Prior to pursuing someone of interest to you, do you ensure you've done the appropriate reality check? Let's face it, sometimes the signs are clear: he's immature; she's a man-eater; he is a chronic womaniser etc. They are not right for you, yet you can't get them out of your head! Do you see this as a waste of time or do you go for it on the off-chance it could be worth it?
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 10:12 AM
Comments (223)Ready, steady, learn to cook!
Heard of singles cooking classes? Think speed-dating - with oven mitts! Dining out is fun; however it is quite the trend to learn to prepare cook book favourites with other singles. Cooking schools can be a great way to learn some fantastic recipes and kitchen skills, whilst meeting new people from all walks of life. There is a vast array of classes available - and you don't need to be a world class chef (keep an eye out for imposter "amateurs" who take classes just to show off!).
Beginners and experts alike can steam up a kitchen and have a great time in a cooking class! Once all the spicing and simmering is done, class mates can mingle and dine together to sample the food they prepared! Have you been to a cooking class or ever considered one? Did you learn any tricks? Did you find something (or someone!) delicious?
Posted by in Food and Wine Lovers Archive at 3:48 PM
Comments (148)Too Flirty?
Making eyes at someone is one thing. Laughing hysterically at their tired jokes whilst clutching their arm with one hand and flicking your hair with the other? - A completely different ball game. The difficulties of dating just get harder and more complex - but it all relies heavily on the success of flirtation, does it not? Do you think a good old fashioned flirt-fest is important in being a male/female magnet? Do you know the art of flirtation and do you think it determines your success in love?
There may be rules to flirting, but unless you're a dating genius, it is sometimes difficult to get your flirt on. Do you flirt a little, or perhaps a little too much? What flirting techniques are you aware of or are you putting to good use? What's the most successful flirting story you have lived through or have heard about? Perhaps you have a cringe-worthy flirt story to share? Do tell...
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 12:43 PM
Comments (483)Welcome to the Food and Wine Show!
For people who love the culinary delights of the world - and for connoisseurs of fine wines, a great food and wine show may be the perfect setting to find a match made in heaven! After all, where there is good food and good wine, there is bound to be good times!
There's something for everyone at a food & wine show. Usually a celebrity chef or two present and perhaps even a cocktail expert; there is always a delicious array of exhibitors to make for a great day out. Have you attended a food and wine show? Heard of any great ones you'd love to attend? Any exciting hints, tips or ideas you learnt at a food and wine show?
Ever bumped into 'potential' whilst taste-testing cheeses or educating your palette? Perhaps a nice chef took your fancy? Or you found yourself engulfed in the same wine as a gorgeous stranger? Food and wine shows are a great opportunity to meet like minded people, and pick up ideas to wow your friends with at your next dinner party!
Posted by in Food and Wine Lovers Archive at 5:24 PM
Comments (191)Conversation Pieces
You've recently agreed to a date or perhaps you've decided to venture out with a group of single friends for a bit of mingling and you've spotted potential. A significant element requires attention: The conversation starter! And we're not after stale pick-up lines here! Starting a conversation with a stranger or someone you don't know too well can be daunting for most people.
What topics are best and which ones must you steer clear of to avoid an awkward silence? The first conversation usually creates a lasting impression, so unsurprisingly, the pressure is on! What is safe to discuss during the glorified "first conversation"? Are there things that you should/shouldn't talk about? How important is the first conversation to you? Tell us about your experiences, whether successful or downright embarrassing!
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 11:45 AM
Comments (358)Divorce Recovery!
Divorce can be a devastating ordeal, and the recovery can be a difficult to say the least. For some, there is never really a recovery at all. For others, although they appear to be past their divorce, they still carry the pain of the break up and the fear of becoming close with anyone new.
The break up of any relationship can be just as devastating. The pain can be intense even if the relationship did not last a long time and was non-marital. So how do you deal with break ups? How long does it take you to get over that person and start from scratch? Do you find it easy to remain friends with your ex after the break up?
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 4:07 PM
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