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Dating Mistakes

Most men and women who re-enter the dating world are a little rusty. It's natural for them to be nervous and make mistakes.
Have you ever been on a date where you have made one, more, or all of the mistakes below?
1. Turning up late
2. Taking things too seriously
3. Talking too much
4. Listening too little
5. Playing the blame game
6. Putting on false airs
7. Having a negative attitude
8. Gender-bashing
9. Drinking too much
10. Appearing desperate
11. Telling fibs
12. Being unnecessarily argumentative
Tell us your stories about any dating blunders you have made or have heard about!
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 11:05 AM
Comments (285)Biggest romance killer!

The biggest romance killer is - not having enough time. At the end of a busy day you wind up in the same bed asking, "Gee, when did you get here?" If you were called and told that your million-dollar cheque was ready, you would make time to pick it up. So do you make time to have a relationship worth a million dollars? What kinds of things do you do? How often do you make the effort to show your partner that there is still romance between the two of you?
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 10:59 AM
Comments (253)Are there advantages to being beautiful?

Don't hate yourself for wanting to be beautiful. Good-looking people get special treatment from strangers, employers and even their own mothers. The rest of us curse the advantages of beauty because we can never claim membership in the knockout club. Or can we? Can we trust our own self-appraisal, or the reassurances of friends and family? Are we subjected to the cool judgment of strangers to satisfy our curiosity about our appearance? Do you judge other people or favorite them based on their appearances?
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 3:43 PM
Comments (474)Long Distance Relationship!

Your relationship is going great and you are both completely in love however your partner tells you that he/she is going to need to move to another city for a period of 2 years.
How can you keep the romance alive through your Long Distance Relationship?
How do you cope with saying goodbye again and again? How do you avoid temptations? Are long distance relationships different for Women and Men? How do you prevent phone arguments?
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 8:29 AM
Comments (289)How to stay fit in the workplace?

From birthday cakes to afternoon teas to Friday drinks, the workplace seems to be designed to expand our waistbands. Add in the high number of hours we spend parked at our desks, and it is easy to see why we can steadily pack on the pounds over the years.
How is it possible to maintain your weight in light of company-sponsored temptations such as these? How do you avoid your coworkers' lolly dishes, their children's school chocolate and popcorn sales, and their freshly baked cookies and muffins without seeming to be unfriendly? How do you avoid the vending machines when the potato chips start calling your name at 3 o'clock in the afternoon? On the other side of the staying fit equation, how do you incorporate enough activity into your day to offset any extra calories that you are picking up?
Posted by in Fitness Fanatics Archive at 12:20 PM
Comments (29)Singles holiday!

The holidays can be a bit depressing for singles when your married and coupled friends head off on holidays leaving you wondering what the options are. What do you do if you have to spend the holidays alone? Do you book a trip to your favorite destination and pack your bags? Have you ever been or considered going on a singles holiday ? What places would you like to go if you were going on your own?
Posted by in Adventure Travellers Archive at 11:52 AM
Comments (22)FINDING MR RIGHT!

Sometimes it seems as if all men are frogs. You keep kissing them, hoping that one day you'll find a prince. So, how do you find Mr. Right? Are certain environments more ideal to look for him? How do you know that Mr. Right is really who he says he is? Is it easy to tell when you are looking at a profile on RSVP?
What about Ms Right? How do you find her? Where do you look?
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 8:38 AM
Comments (554)Define the word "Relationship"?

How do you define your relationships? The terms "Dating" and "Relationship" have many colourful labels, and you've probably heard of; been in; or sought after at least one of them! How should these affairs, so to speak, be defined?
What is a long-term relationship? And when I say "long-term" does it harbor the expectation of - here comes the c-word - COMMITMENT? Does "long-term relationship" imply moving in together, getting married, etc? Is a "short-term relationship" just a "fling" or a liaison with no foreseeable future? Do you measure relationships with time frames, and if so, what are they?
What does "Dating" mean to you? Is it seeing numerous people simultaneously where no one is exclusive, or is it dating just one person, minus the long-term aspirations. Does the expression "Casual relationship" have a superficial, flaky undertone? Or, does it mean enjoying ALL your options and living in the moment? Please define!
Posted by in Dating Life Archive at 11:40 AM
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